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Danalana	Posted: May 31 2010, 09:12 PM
If mothering was easy, FATHERS would do it. Group: Members Posts: 5,687 Member No.: 8,444 Joined: 31-January 07	For our first 3 losses, I knew the dates my babies went to Heaven. For the last 3, I lost track. I honestly don't know. I feel SO horrible, but I loved them just the same as the others I wonder if this is normal. --------------------

~Roo'sMama~	Posted: May 31 2010, 09:32 PM
My two cuties :) Group: Members Posts: 7,394 Member No.: 788 Joined: 29-September 04	Don't feel bad, Dana! It's hard to remember all those dates sometimes, and not remembering the exact date doesn't have anything to do with how much you loved those babies. -------------------- Sara ~ Wife to Scott, Mommy to Andrew 6-12-05, Alison 2-20-07, and our angel in heaven 4-20-06

amymom

Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:18 AM

The kids!!

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QUOTE (~Roo'sMama~ @ Jun 1 2010, 12:32 AM)

Don't feel bad, Dana! It's hard to remember all those dates sometimes, and not remembering the exact date doesn't have anything to do with how much you loved those babies.

I agree

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Anne Marie
Mom to Billy & Mary Beth
Wife to Lee

CantWait	Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:39 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	Oh honey don't feel bad. Even after only 3 losses I'm forgetting the dates by heart that I lost them or they would be here. Heck I forget Robbie and Anthony's birthday sometimes (temporarily and only for a split second mind you) It's totally normal, and doesn't mean you don't love them any less. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

PrairieMom	Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:45 AM
Ruby Member Group: Members Posts: 12,652 Member No.: 2,561 Joined: 24-September 05	The dates dont matter, you hold them in your heart. I actually forgot that yesterday was Al's birthday until I saw a friend post about her daughters birthday on FB and remembered that they share a birhtday. You have a lot on your plate. You should be happy you remember to feed everyone.

Danalana

Posted: Jun 1 2010, 05:39 AM

If mothering was easy, FATHERS would do it.

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QUOTE (PrairieMom @ Jun 1 2010, 02:45 AM)

You should be happy you remember to feed everyone.

Shoot! I KNEW I was forgetting something!

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my2monkeyboys	Posted: Jun 1 2010, 08:46 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05	I agree, Dana. No need to feel bad about it in the least. Dates mean nothing, memories and love mean everything. --------------------

MoonMama	Posted: Jun 1 2010, 09:00 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 6,537 Member No.: 4,927 Joined: 27-August 06	I agree with the others.

akaishuu	Posted: Jun 12 2010, 07:06 AM
Newbie Group: Members Posts: 3 Member No.: 23,054 Joined: 12-June 10	Dont feel bad! I think I know your thinking!

A&A'smommy	Posted: Jun 12 2010, 07:13 AM
Praying For Spencer Group: Moderators Posts: 29,769 Member No.: 243 Joined: 11-August 03	I'm just seeing this!!! --------------------