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luvbug00	Posted: Apr 7 2010, 03:19 PM
awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05	so gang, it appears i am done dating. I'm really over getting attached to someone and getting hurt. So i think the best thing for me is to just stop all together. No longer want a relationship. From now on it's just flings. I invest all this time, money and affection on these men and end up with nothing. I've decided to become a relationship narsissist. it works out better for me. so i guess that is it. and onto the meat market.. -------------------- Mya 7-1-00

my2monkeyboys	Posted: Apr 8 2010, 06:45 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05	I don't think you should give up on dating, maybe just take things slower. Give the relationship time to develop on it's own, ya know? --------------------

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Posted: Apr 8 2010, 07:00 AM

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QUOTE (my2monkeyboys @ Apr 8 2010, 09:45 AM)

I don't think you should give up on dating, maybe just take things slower. Give the relationship time to develop on it's own, ya know?

I agree. Sometimes relationships take a long time to develop. Sometimes longer for men than women and we just have to be patient. Just from your previous posts I gather you take things fast, and maybe you DO need to slow down. I believe you love hard, and there is nothing wrong with that, but maybe the guys you love "hard" just aren't ready for that kind of love. KWIM??

((HUGS)) You should not give up on dating/love. There is someone special out there for you.

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~*Karen*~
wife to hubby, Ryan Douglas
mommy to Kylie (9) and Megan (6.5)
and furbabies Gavin, Buster, Sox, and Hailey

DVFlyer	Posted: Apr 8 2010, 07:24 AM
Just a man Group: Members Posts: 2,733 Member No.: 1,368 Joined: 10-February 05	Good for you. Just date, have fun and don't take things seriously. Life is too short. But don't be surprised if you find yourself in a relationship after all. -------------------- Convincing the world that the only way to solve the ongoing issues while raising children is PERSISTENCE. You have to keep trying things and not give up........ they eventually go away on their own. ;-)

luvbug00	Posted: Apr 8 2010, 06:10 PM
awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05	u girls are right, i do fall hard and fast. It's just my style. I do think a break would be good right about now. I really just have swiched roles with the guys. lol! -------------------- Mya 7-1-00

MommyToAshley	Posted: Apr 8 2010, 08:14 PM
Happy Spring! Group: Administrators Posts: 27,473 Member No.: 2 Joined: 8-February 03	((hugs)) Nothing sucks more than a broken heart. We've all been there and felt that way. I know it's probably the last thing you want to hear, but the love of your life will come along when you least expect it... you will see. -------------------- Dee Dee , Mommy to: Ashley Marie 9/05/02 Joshua Lee 2/03/00 (Our Angel in Heaven)

mummy2girls	Posted: Apr 11 2010, 06:27 PM
Thinking of you Spencer! Group: Members Posts: 12,708 Member No.: 156 Joined: 4-May 03	(((HUGS))) Nadia. Don't give up hun! I went through this many many times! and the best thing that i did was just stop dateing just like you said...BUT i actually quit dateing and no flings either! I focused on just jenna and myself. I wanted it to be a happy time for her and not have men come in and out of her life. and when i did this I met marcus down the road. They say when you stop looking love will appear! Your love will come to you and you and Mya will be happier than you have ever been!!!! Don't give up just take a break from all men, all relationships all flings! --------------------

Hillbilly Housewife	Posted: Apr 12 2010, 06:48 AM
Ruby Member Group: Moderators Posts: 13,589 Member No.: 89 Joined: 5-April 03	LOL.. you go girl. party hardy. Ps.. while you're out on the meat market.. enjoy the pork.. bwahahahahaha couldn't resist. -------------------- The richest people don't have the best of everything, they make the best of everything. The Administrators of the Parenting Club take violators of the Terms of Service Agreement seriously. Please report any suspicions to the Moderators! Report a post using the "report" button in the upper right corner of the offending post.

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