I think about them, still

Even though both my losses were early, they were still losses I think about them sometimes, but then I look at my Kade and I just smile...he was the one meant to be in my arms It's just hard, imagining what they would look like and how their personalites would have been. I know I will see my little ones some day, though, and I can't wait for that!

I think we'll always think about the babies we've lost and try to imagine what they'd be like. I have a neice who is the same age my baby would have been and whenever my sister is telling me about her I think - my baby would be doing that now too.

This post has been edited by ~Roo'sMama~ on May 7 2008, 01:28 PM

I just realized the second loss was a year ago, the 19th of this month. We got pregnant with Kade the very next cycle!

I hear you - mine were also early but not forgotten.

you will see them again someday!!!

I found I thought about my losses even MORE after I finally had a baby to hold because,,,,,,,,,,,after you have a baby you totally realize what you loss. KWIM ? That's why this last loss was the hardest for me. My first two losses were before Sam and Abby and could only 'imagine' what I was missing but this last loss was after Sam and Abby and it just crushed my soul because I now KNOW what a true blessing a child is.

Hang in there, Dana.

I'm sorry

I'm so sorry dada, I know exactly what you mean. Zander was suppossed to be a twin, I lost one early on( 10 - 12 weeks I think) and I still sit back and look at him some days and wonder.............