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We lost Navi| DansMom |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:07 AM
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This is so sad---I'm very, very sorry
 -------------------- Tracy, George and Daniel (11/25/02)
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| sunshine girls |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:20 AM
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She had meconium aspiration. I havn't felt up to reading about it in detail yet, but it is when the baby breaths in amniotic fluid that has the first stools in it. The doctor at the hospital said that it can cause respitory problems straight away or a few hours after. Navi had breathing problems and she was put on a breathing machine, she passed away shortly afterwards. This is my favourite photo of Navi and my nephew Jake. Navi had already passed away but I told dh's sister not to tell Jake and say the baby was sleeping. We'd been saying goodbye and it was so painful, her death hadn't fully set in but it was just so undescribable. Jake on the other hand was blissfully unaware and he could still marvel in the joy of Navi's birth, without the pain of her death weighing down on him like it did to us. This photo makes me happy, because Navi looks so peacful and Jake is so happy. In any other situation I would have been upset about the weird tones, but I like them..  Thank you all for your replies, they mean alot to me and dh. I didnt expect this kind of response, even though I've only been a member for a short time you all open your hearts to me and my husband when we need it..thank you all so much  -------------------- ~Bonnie~married to James. Navi Gusta Elke, September 11th 2005
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| MomToMany |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:28 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss again. That picture is very sweet. |
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| luvbug00 |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:40 AM
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 that picture is just soo beautiful. --------------------  Mya 7-1-00 |
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| sunshine girls |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:48 AM
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I'd also like to thank you all for giving me the courage to talk about this all. Reading your replies has given me what I needed to speak about it, I havn't been able to talk about it to my closest friends and family. dh and I havn't yet had a meaningfull discussion. I think this is because we are both grieving in our own way and we havnt been using words to support each other, we just hold hands at night. Its kind of inexplainable, I think when we're both ready we'll talk about it.
Talking about something so painful to a friend or a family member is more difficult than I would've imagined. But I never would've imagined I'd find so much comfort in everyone here, I don't know what most of you look like and I've never met any of you, but your the easiest people to talk to. I don't really know how to say what I'm wanting to, I hope it makes sense. You've all been so kind, and I don;t know why I'm finding it so easy to say what Im feeling here. If you were all here now I'd give you all a great big hug Thank you all for being so kind and so caring, it's truly what I needed. It's a great source of comfort to know I can come here and say what I can't say to my family at the moment.. -------------------- ~Bonnie~married to James. Navi Gusta Elke, September 11th 2005
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| gr33n3y3z |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:50 AM
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thank you for sharing your picture with us
Navi is so beauiful (((( Hugs )))) -------------------- Wife to Ed (Redchief)
Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin "Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear" |
  
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| zdk753 |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 10:07 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I will be praying for you. Navi was gorgous.
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| Kaitlin'smom |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 10:11 AM
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Oh Bonnie, I am so very sorry and I am glad we gave you the strength to talk about it.
to you and your family. I adore that picture. Thank you for sharing that picture of your angel. Please let me know if you need anything. -------------------- Di ~ mommy to Kaitlin wife to David
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| kit_kats_mom |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 10:12 AM
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My heart literally is aching for you and your family.
This is such very sad news. I'm so sorry. Please come here and vent/rant/rage/share/cry whatever. By the way, the picture is beautiful. Her life should be celebrated. A perfect little girl. It shows the innocence of a child. -------------------- Cary
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| Jamison'smama |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 10:26 AM
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No words but I am so very sorry, she's a beautiful angel.
-------------------- Brenda, a mom and wife in love with my family
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| moxee24 |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 11:43 AM
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 She was a very beautiful baby. You are in my thought and prayers. I have been through a very simular experiance and can tell you I know how hard it can be to talk to someone that is close to you, I wish I had a place like this to come to when DH and I lost our first DS. Talk here as much as you need until you are ready to talk to those who are close. -------------------- ~*~*~Jaimie~*~*~
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| 3_call_me_mama |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 12:56 PM
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That truly is a priceless photo you have with your nephew adn your beautiful daughter. It shows the innocence tht children hold and the beautiful life you created. She truly is a gem adn her life, no matter how short it was, should be celebrated. ANd the poem in your signature brought tears to my eyes. Hope you and your other chidlren are all holding up. We are here for support and anything else you need.
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| amynicole21 |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 01:04 PM
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I am so, so very sorry. My heart aches for you. She really is a beautiful girl
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| sunshine girls |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 01:09 PM
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Thank you
-------------------- ~Bonnie~married to James. Navi Gusta Elke, September 11th 2005
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| jcc64 |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 01:14 PM
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I don't know you at all, and yet I am sitting here with tears in my eyes b/c your pain is so tangible to us. Navi is absolutely beautiful, the pictures are priceless, and I am certain they will become invaluable to you as you make your journey through the grieving process. I am sure all sorts of feelings will arise at different times, and just remember that no feelings are wrong, no amount of time is too long or too short to recover some feelings of normalcy in your life and in your mind. You may never get over her loss, but hopefully in time it will hurt a little less than it did the day before.
I pray for strength for you and your family. And may your love of Navi always warm your heart, even as it must feel like it's breaking it right now. -------------------- Jeanne
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!" |
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| My2Boyz |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 01:44 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts. The picture is priceless.
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| Our Lil' Family |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 01:46 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You now have a guardian angel watching over you and your family. I am glad you find comfort here to talk about it and hope that you and your husband can share your feelings soon.
My prayers are with you. -------------------- Naomi, Wife to Tim & Mommy to Thomas (7) and Andrew (2)
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| Emeraldsmom |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 04:23 PM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I am sending prayers to you and your family. --------------------  |
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| My3LilMonkeys |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 06:03 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss. I agree that the picture is absolutely priceless. It moved me to tears.
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| MyBrownEyedBoy |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 06:37 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine, but I am glad that we can be here for you. Somehow it is easier to say things to friends here where you can't see any faces. That is a priceless picture of your nephew and daughter. You and your family will be in my prayers as you travel this road. Hugs.
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| CantWait |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 08:05 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, your precious angel is in my prayers tonight and always
 Please post pics, so we can see how precious she is. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~
 ~*~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~*~  |
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| mammag |
Posted: Sep 21 2005, 09:15 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sooooo sorry for your loss.
-------------------- Jeanie - SAHM to Kristen 13, Cade 12, Conner 8, Keegan 3
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| Sarah&Mackenzie |
Posted: Sep 22 2005, 05:20 AM
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She is Beautiful!!! Again I am so sorry for your loss.
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| mom2tripp |
Posted: Sep 22 2005, 05:29 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss she is absolutely beautiful and that picture makes my heart ache even more---PLEASE use us for support!!!!! Lots of prayers coming to you and your family for your great loss!
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| TLCDad |
Posted: Sep 22 2005, 07:25 AM
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Oh I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
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