Mini Vent, about men

Okay here is what happened. My DH decided that he was gona go ride the 4-wheeler sunday (all day thing) he is off work on sundays and mondays. I keep the kids on saturdays and sundays cause I am off work. But on monday when I go back to work and he dont he wont keep them. Fine. So anyways sunday he is going riding I cant go cause Raygen is to small. Of course he never asked me how I felt about it or if I had plans for that day or anything. It makes me so mad. He does what HE wants when HE wants to. What about me. When do I get to go and do something I want to do by-my-self. No I dont. I cant just leave and go do it. I am just so mad about this. Does anyone else deal with this. I cant talk to him about it cause either way he is gona do what he wants. And i cant never get him to understand my point. Next weekend is our 1yr anniversary and honestly I dont know if I wanna celebrate it. I am just so tired of this. Thanks for listing it always helps to let it out.

Lisa

OH I feel you hon!! I'm living with a selfish stinker myself. I can't talk to brad either I just demand and wich until he cracks or just make him feel really gulty. I'm no help but I hope you get some time to yourself soon!!

It's a guy thing. My man does it too. But they need to be told exactly how you feel & how you want things to change. Most men are clueless about what their wife is feeling. So, just tell him that he's watching Raygen for 2 hours (or whatever) on x day, and that's that.

I hope he listens & you get time for yourself soon!

Unfortunately most guys don't even stop to think if we need a break. So I also suggest you just telling him that you are going shopping or whatever it is you want to do and don't give him the option of whinning about it or backing out. It might sound mean but sometimes that's the only way we can get what we need too.

We have been married for 7yrs and have two children and my dh just proved this weekend (although it was a close one) that he is thinking of me now. He was invited to go to the mountains with friends for the weekend. I told him he could go no biggie and he decided that it was not fair to leave me home alone all weekend with the kids. You just have to keep telling him My rule is I am going out such and such a day if you want to go out that time too you need to find the sitter. We don't talk much either my hubby doesn't like it but he usually communicates with me thru email. Good luck and hang in there.

l.,juew