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Posted by: kimberley Nov 27 2006, 02:40 PM |
http://hornymatches.com/adult-personals-10873070.html |
Posted by: MyBrownEyedBoy Nov 27 2006, 02:48 PM |
No way, Nuh Uh! OMG, Kimberley, I am soooo sorry you found that. What a totally crappy thing to do. |
Posted by: gr33n3y3z Nov 27 2006, 02:55 PM |
Dump his sorry @$$ and take him through the ringer and dont let him come up for air What a Jerk!! |
Posted by: moped Nov 27 2006, 03:00 PM |
Ahhhh I am so sorry to see this. I didn't know there were problems. We are here for you anytime - |
Posted by: CantWait Nov 27 2006, 03:10 PM |
What a dirty rotten SOB . I'm so sorry Kimberley. |
Posted by: kimberley Nov 27 2006, 03:17 PM |
i can't deal. he is packing his stuff right now. eta: i begged him to be honest with me if this was ending and he said he didn't know what he wanted. i believed the better end. |
Posted by: CantWait Nov 27 2006, 03:23 PM | ||
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Posted by: redchief Nov 27 2006, 03:44 PM |
I'm so sorry Kimberley. He posted on hornymatches? For crying out loud! |
Posted by: luvbug00 Nov 27 2006, 04:07 PM |
I'm sooo sorry! |
Posted by: PrairieMom Nov 27 2006, 04:18 PM |
You deserve way better than that. |
Posted by: amymom Nov 27 2006, 04:21 PM |
Posted by: My3LilMonkeys Nov 27 2006, 04:47 PM |
I'm so sorry. |
Posted by: Kaitlin'smom Nov 27 2006, 04:54 PM |
OMG Kimberley I dont know what to say, I am soo sorry, he never struck me as that type |
Posted by: 3xsthefun Nov 27 2006, 05:17 PM |
I'm so sorry, Kimberley |
Posted by: MommyToAshley Nov 27 2006, 05:20 PM |
Kimberley... I am so sorry. |
Posted by: ~Roo'sMama~ Nov 27 2006, 05:28 PM |
Kimberly I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say. |
Posted by: mom2my2cuties Nov 27 2006, 05:29 PM |
I am so sorry sweetie!!! If you need anything, don't hesitate to ask! |
Posted by: booey2 Nov 27 2006, 05:30 PM |
I am at a total loss for words. I am sorry this has happened and that you found out this way. He could have at least had the gahonas to tell you and be honest. Terri |
Posted by: Nina J Nov 27 2006, 05:43 PM |
I'm so sorry, Kimberley |
Posted by: kimberley Nov 27 2006, 05:48 PM |
i wish he would have been honest. i could have handled this better. i am completely devastated. i never loved someone more in my life and this is what happens. sorry i am such a downer. |
Posted by: Maddie&EthansMom Nov 27 2006, 05:53 PM |
Kimberley I don't even know what to say. You certainly don't deserve that kind of dishonesty and unfaithfulness. I didn't know you guys were separated. |
Posted by: luvmykids Nov 27 2006, 06:20 PM | ||
Says a lot about him, jerk I'm so sorry Kimberly, what a rotten thing to have to deal with. Many hugs and prayers for you. |
Posted by: kit_kats_mom Nov 27 2006, 06:39 PM |
Stunned. Absolutely, positively stunned. I can not believe it. What a low-down, immature, creepy thing to do. I swear I'd have never expected that kind of behavior from him when he was posting here. He seemed like such a devoted dad. Well, actually, maybe he is...I mean he does mention the girls in his horn-dogs online resume'. GROSS JAMIE...and TACKY...reeealy TACKY. Kimberley, did he show you his post or tell you about it or something? How did you stumble upon it? I'm so sorry hon. |
Posted by: MyLuvBugs Nov 27 2006, 07:00 PM |
OMG!! What the H*** is wrong with him? I'm so sorry Kimberly. |
Posted by: 1lilpeanut2love Nov 27 2006, 07:04 PM |
I am SO sorry! What a jerk! He should have been honest and upfront with you! Sorry it ended like that! |
Posted by: kimberley Nov 27 2006, 07:05 PM |
we have had troubles recently due to stupid disagreements that i thought would naturally wash over as they always do, but when i specifically asked him what he wanted (ie this marriage to end or not) he said he didn't know what he wanted. i assumed he just needed some space and we were still "together" when i happened upon the ad. i have checked the cookies on the computer maybe 3 times in 4 yrs. today was one of those days cuz i just had a sick feeling in my stomach. sadly, my worst fears were recognized and my marriage is over. can someone tell me how to get over the only person i ever loved??????????? |
Posted by: mummy2girls Nov 27 2006, 07:10 PM |
OMG Kimberely! That must of came as a blow! I dont know what to say! Other than he is a PIG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why do men do this? i dont get it... GRRRR!!!!!! you deserve so much better hun you really do.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Posted by: MyLuvBugs Nov 27 2006, 07:10 PM |
I wish I knew something that would make it all better sweetie. Unfortunately, taking him for all he's worth in a divorce and then letting time heal your heart are the only things I can think of to make it all better. |
Posted by: mummy2girls Nov 27 2006, 07:13 PM |
as for the how do i get over someone? its hard hun! I went through it with Jordans dad. He was what i thought was my soulmate! I never loved anyone that deeeply. but as time went on i did.. just take it one day at a time. and hun hug thos kids of yours they will put a smile on that face! |
Posted by: Kirstenmumof3 Nov 27 2006, 08:32 PM |
OMG Kimberley! I'm so sorry to hear this! I'm at a complete loss for words! If you need anything, please call me! The package for Jade will be out in the mail by the end of the week, but if you need anything else please let me know! You are such a kind a loving person, I can't believe anyone would do this to you! |
Posted by: amynicole21 Nov 28 2006, 04:19 AM |
Oh my God! I can't believe him!!! I'm so sorry, Kimberley. |
Posted by: TANNER'S MOM Nov 28 2006, 06:16 AM |
Oh I am so sorry. I know your pain I have felt it. I have been there and found pretty much the same thing on my computer. It was the most hurtful thing I had ever dealt with too. I am very sorry and if you need to talk then let me know. I don't think I have ever got over it.. I try to go on day by day but I haven't forgotten or got over it. I am thinking of you.. |
Posted by: C&K*s Mommie Nov 28 2006, 06:22 AM |
Kimberley I am so, so sorry. We are here for you anytime. |
Posted by: boyohboyohboy Nov 28 2006, 06:40 AM |
I am so sorry for this loss in your life...I cant imagine the pain you are in. I hope you have a strong family or support people in your life you can lean on or be around right now... my prayers are with you |
Posted by: coasterqueen Nov 28 2006, 06:45 AM |
Kimberley, I don't even know what to say. I am so sorry hun. |
Posted by: lisar Nov 28 2006, 07:25 AM |
I am so sorry. As for getting over him. Time..It takes time. |
Posted by: Sarah&Mackenzie Nov 28 2006, 08:32 AM |
I am so sorry |
Posted by: MomToJade&Jordan Nov 28 2006, 09:06 AM |
Oh Kimberly. There are all sorts of things I would like to call that sorry excuse right now. It's not going to be easy, but you'll be able to do it because you're a very strong person. Just take it one day at a time. He doesn't deserve you, no one who can put something like that up on a computer deserves you. I'm here if you need me hun. |
Posted by: jcc64 Nov 28 2006, 09:09 AM |
Kimberly, I am so sorry for you right now. I don't think anything but time heals this sort of devastating betrayal. Boy, this is an unhappy time for our little PC family. I'm sorry. |
Posted by: paradisemommy Nov 28 2006, 09:30 AM |
just loving you.. i'm soooo sorry... |
Posted by: ediep Nov 28 2006, 09:32 AM |
Kimberely, 50 million hugs from me!!!! you are the strongest woman that I "know"! I am so sorry!!! he doesn't deserve you! |
Posted by: cameragirl21 Nov 28 2006, 09:47 AM |
I don't even know what to say, Kimberley, other than, I'm really sorry. |
Posted by: Our Lil' Family Nov 28 2006, 09:51 AM |
I too don't have the words. I'm so sorry. |
Posted by: DansMom Nov 28 2006, 10:15 AM |
I'm so sorry, Kimberley. |
Posted by: Boo&BugsMom Nov 28 2006, 11:45 AM |
What as a$$. That's all I can say. |
Posted by: 3_call_me_mama Nov 28 2006, 04:30 PM |
AWE hun I am so sorry! What a jerk!!! |
Posted by: Jamison'smama Nov 28 2006, 05:07 PM |
I am sending you all the support and hugs I possibly can. You are an amazing woman and we all adore you--I am so sorry! |
Posted by: A&A'smommy Nov 28 2006, 05:22 PM |
OH Honey I'm SOOO sorry!!!!!! |
Posted by: Cece00 Nov 29 2006, 09:13 AM |
I am SO sorry that this has happened. He is a piece of crap (not the word I WANT to use, but you get the idea...) for doing that. That is just WRONG. If that is the type of guy he is, he is NOT worth your time. Seriously. I know it hurts and everything but that is just digusting, disrespectful and hurtful. |
Posted by: kimberley Nov 29 2006, 09:55 AM |
thanks for the support. disgusted doesn't begin to describe how i feel the girls are asking for him. i am not sure what to say but reassure them how much i love them and that i will always be here. only contact he has made is to request his toiletries be left outside. not having luck finding a sitter yet. please pray we land on our feet. |
Posted by: coasterqueen Nov 29 2006, 09:56 AM | ||
Ah hun, my P&pt's are with you 24/7. I wish I was close. I would help out. I could use some helpers here at work to keep me working. |
Posted by: Calimama Nov 29 2006, 10:00 AM |
I'm so sorry hun. |
Posted by: C&K*s Mommie Nov 29 2006, 01:05 PM |
Numerous prayers and thoughts for you that everything will work out for you. You are so strong. |
Posted by: mysweetpeasWil&Wes Nov 30 2006, 01:07 PM |
I just can't believe this...what a SOB!!! My heart truly goes out to you and the kids. You are in my thoughts... |
Posted by: Maddie&EthansMom Dec 1 2006, 08:47 AM |
I haven't stopped thinking about you, Kimberley. You are so strong...you WILL land on your feet. I wish I could do more. |