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mummy2girls |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 07:24 AM
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But i cant let myself bond with this baby inside me. I love the fact im pregnant and that im going to be a mommy again and have this precious baby in my arms soon.... but because of my past experiences I just cant let myself bond.. Does this sound horrible? Im glad we are not finding out what we are having because if i found out it was a boy i may be more withdrawn:( and worried...
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lisar |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 07:52 AM
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msoulz |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 09:42 AM
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I too had a couple of losses - not as difficult as yours though - and I felt the same way for a long time. There's nothing horrible about it
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Crystalina |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 09:44 AM
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I can't say I know what you're going through and feeling but I just wanted to give
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Mommy2Isabella |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 11:42 AM
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CantWait |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 12:15 PM
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I can't even pretend to know what you're going through...did you feel this way with Jenna? Honestly this could be a early PPD (which can accur in pregnancy as well), I'd talk to your doctor about it.
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mummy2girls |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 12:56 PM
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no its not PPD I did feel it with jenna. I didnt even hold jenna after she was born because i was worried. When you lose 2 sons its hard to bond with a baby when your preggo. so i know its not PPD. this is somethign completely different -------------------- |
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CantWait |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 01:32 PM
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I hope you don't think I was trying to pounce on you. I was only curious as to whether you felt like this with Jenna, I can see how you would feel that way. ![]() -------------------- |
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gr33n3y3z |
Posted: Dec 4 2008, 01:36 PM
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I think it is very normal hun
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