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mummy2girls	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 07:24 AM
Thinking of you Spencer! Group: Members Posts: 12,708 Member No.: 156 Joined: 4-May 03	But i cant let myself bond with this baby inside me. I love the fact im pregnant and that im going to be a mommy again and have this precious baby in my arms soon.... but because of my past experiences I just cant let myself bond.. Does this sound horrible? Im glad we are not finding out what we are having because if i found out it was a boy i may be more withdrawn:( and worried... --------------------

lisar	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 07:52 AM
Yes it is I.... Group: Members Posts: 11,727 Member No.: 1,760 Joined: 20-April 05	I think in your situation its actually pretty normal. I can understand why you feel that way. If you cant bond with the baby now, you will as soon as you give birth.

msoulz	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 09:42 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,102 Member No.: 2,158 Joined: 7-July 05	I too had a couple of losses - not as difficult as yours though - and I felt the same way for a long time. There's nothing horrible about it . It is you trying to protect yourself. Just keep doing the right things for the baby and feel good knowing that. -------------------- Mary :) a.k.a. Jake & Erin's mom

Crystalina	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 09:44 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 6,600 Member No.: 3,338 Joined: 24-February 06	I can't say I know what you're going through and feeling but I just wanted to give and let you know that I'm sure when the time nears you will bond. Some women don't/can't bond until after their baby is here. -------------------- Crystal Fernandez Connell \| Create Your Badge

Mommy2Isabella	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 11:42 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 2,917 Member No.: 3,075 Joined: 9-January 06	It doesn't sound horrible, especially after what you went through! -------------------- Jessica Wife to Salvador 12.23.05 Mommy to Isabella 8.8.06 & Isaia 1.2.08 & Ian 8.28.09

CantWait	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 12:15 PM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	I can't even pretend to know what you're going through...did you feel this way with Jenna? Honestly this could be a early PPD (which can accur in pregnancy as well), I'd talk to your doctor about it. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

mummy2girls

Posted: Dec 4 2008, 12:56 PM

Thinking of you Spencer!

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QUOTE (CantWait @ Dec 4 2008, 03:15 PM)

I can't even pretend to know what you're going through...did you feel this way with Jenna? Honestly this could be a early PPD (which can accur in pregnancy as well), I'd talk to your doctor about it.

no its not PPD I did feel it with jenna. I didnt even hold jenna after she was born because i was worried. When you lose 2 sons its hard to bond with a baby when your preggo. so i know its not PPD. this is somethign completely different

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CantWait

Posted: Dec 4 2008, 01:32 PM

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QUOTE (JennasMommy @ Dec 4 2008, 05:56 PM)

QUOTE (CantWait @ Dec 4 2008, 03:15 PM)

I can't even pretend to know what you're going through...did you feel this way with Jenna? Honestly this could be a early PPD (which can accur in pregnancy as well), I'd talk to your doctor about it.

I hope you don't think I was trying to pounce on you. I was only curious as to whether you felt like this with Jenna, I can see how you would feel that way.

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~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~

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~*~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~*~

gr33n3y3z	Posted: Dec 4 2008, 01:36 PM
Doin Good :~ Group: Moderators Posts: 15,274 Member No.: 822 Joined: 13-October 04	I think it is very normal hun -------------------- Wife to Ed (Redchief) Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin "Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear"

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