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> I feel so silly
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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 04:57 AM
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I know I was barely even pregnant, only 5 weeks when I started to lose the "baby", my goodness there wasn't even a heartbeat, but I was really looking forward to this baby. I mean, we actually planned this pregnancy. I would never give up either of the boys, I just find it odd that the two pregnancies that were unplanned surprises were completely healthy, and the one that was planned and expected, failed. sad.gif

Why does it hurt so much, and when does it go away??? Everytime someone brings up a baby, or everytime I see a pink or purple stroller on the street, my heart sinks. bawling.gif

And now Ron isn't even sure if he wants to try again dry.gif sad.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 05:57 AM
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Its still a loss no matter how or what happend your feelings are very normal sweetie hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif


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  Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:26 AM
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I am sorry Marie, I can't even fathom your pain as I haven't experienced a loss such as this. You have every right to feel this way. hug.gif May your pain ease over time. hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:30 AM
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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:53 AM
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hug.gif I have no idea what you are going through. I can't even imagine it. Give Ron time. I'm sure he is hurting too. hug.gif
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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:32 AM
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i know how hard it is, and it sucks .give yourself some time to grieve. im sure ron will come around, he is grieving to. hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:33 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif A loss is a loss! Give it some time, and I am sure Ron will come around as well! hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:52 AM
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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 09:06 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif I'm sorry sweetie you just need some time to heal, Ron probably needs time too!! hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 10:18 AM
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I agree with everyone, it is a total heartache regardless of how it happens. hug.gif

Ron is probably having those feelings too because he sees you hurting and doesn't want either of you to go through it ever again. He will soon realize that time will heal this pain and you will try again.. hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 11:19 AM
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Marie, I am so sorry for your loss and pain. hug.gif I really hope you will get your baby girl, or baby boy if that is what your third baby is meant to be and I hope Ron comes around soon. No matter how short your pregnancy, I'm sure this comes as a big shock to everyone. hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 28 2008, 12:30 PM
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oh Marie! hug.gif it doesn't matter when it happened, it still hurts. I lost an unplanned pregnancy last April and I was devastated all the same. I'm so sorry, and NEVER feel silly for being sad for a loss hug.gif


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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 09:24 AM
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You lost a baby..regardless of how far along you were. The moment you read that pregnancy test you had hopes and dreams of for and of this child...Its hard to just shut that off.


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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 02:04 PM
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Oh, Marie, don't feel silly at all- a loss is a loss no matter what, and you have ever right to feel the way you do!

Just know we are all here to talk if you need to, and things will turn out for you exactly as they are meant to be!


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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 04:05 PM
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hug.gif hug.gif Thank you everyone for your kind words. I just needed to know that what I was feeling was normal and that I wasn't completely out of touch with reality.


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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 04:41 PM
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Marie I'm so sorry. Give it some time and you and Ron will be ready to try again. hug.gif hug.gif
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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 06:20 PM
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Posted: Dec 29 2008, 09:21 PM
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hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif Marie, I'm so sorry for your loss. hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif


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