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luvbug00 |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 05:35 AM
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awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05 |
I give up on thease stuiped pills. I feel like ***. There is NO way i can keep taking thease and funtion properly. I can't sit at a computer for more then 30 min without a blasting headach and i'm super irritable. I HATE THEM!!!
now my next delimais how to tell Lars i refuse to take anymore?.. -------------------- Mya 7-1-00 |
coasterqueen |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 05:37 AM
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Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 27,917 Member No.: 236 Joined: 4-August 03 |
Well, I'm not sure what the answer is to your question. Will he wear condoms?
Ryan won't get fixed and I refuse. I am taking birth control to control my periods, but I told him until he gets fixed he's wearing a condom. I am sorry they didn't work for you. -------------------- ~*Karen*~
wife to hubby, Ryan Douglas mommy to Kylie (9) and Megan (6.5) and furbabies Gavin, Buster, Sox, and Hailey |
luvbug00 |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 05:39 AM
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awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05 |
Yeah, he's gonna have to wear one unless he wants a baby right now.
I'm a little nurvous to tell him because he insisted that i get on them in the first place because he hates condoms so much. -------------------- Mya 7-1-00 |
coasterqueen |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 05:41 AM
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Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 27,917 Member No.: 236 Joined: 4-August 03 |
Do NOT be nervous. You have tried everything to make them work. If he can't understand that, then....well . -------------------- ~*Karen*~
wife to hubby, Ryan Douglas mommy to Kylie (9) and Megan (6.5) and furbabies Gavin, Buster, Sox, and Hailey |
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my2monkeyboys |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 05:42 AM
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Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05 |
You could always try a different method. I have never been able to take BC pills either, so we use the withdrawal method. There's been only 3 times we didn't and Will came along on the 3rd. So, it's been pretty effective for us. You could always try something else... there are a few options, you'll just have to see which will work best for you both.
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mummy2girls |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:17 AM
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Thinking of you Spencer! Group: Members Posts: 12,708 Member No.: 156 Joined: 4-May 03 |
i wouldnt turst the wihthdrawl method because i know some who got pregnant that way. and sometimes you may not pull out on time etc etc etc -------------------- |
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mummy2girls |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:19 AM
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Thinking of you Spencer! Group: Members Posts: 12,708 Member No.: 156 Joined: 4-May 03 |
I despise them too hun so marcus is only using condoms. he hates them and are a pain in the bumb but he wont get any unless he uses one so he does suck it up and use them...LOL. but remember they can break easy and then you may be get pregnant and the sounds of it ,it sounds lars is not wanting one right now.
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lovemy2 |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:53 AM
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Gold Member Group: Validating Posts: 4,686 Member No.: 8,607 Joined: 9-February 07 |
I agree with Karen - if they make you feel that awful I guess he will have to suck it up and if he can't well then that is a whole other issue....
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luvbug00 |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:54 AM
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awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05 |
it's not that he doesn't or would be mad or anything. in fact i think he'd be rather pleased. But he likes to plan and be informed. he likes to know the effectivity #'s and all that jazz. He knew the mini was only 95% and the condoms 88% and he was fine with it..
-------------------- Mya 7-1-00 |
Kaitlin'smom |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:56 AM
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Graceland Group: Moderators Posts: 23,956 Member No.: 32 Joined: 5-March 03 |
If it were me I woudl have a heart to heart with him and tell him how these pills make you feel, say you tried but these are not for you and explore other option for you both, ask him suggestions and give him options. If he gets upset or defensive then its a whole other issue
-------------------- Di ~ mommy to Kaitlin wife to David
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lisar |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 06:58 AM
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Yes it is I.... Group: Members Posts: 11,727 Member No.: 1,760 Joined: 20-April 05 |
I dont reccomend the pull and pray method. Lexi is proof that dont work. LOL. I say just tell him what they are doing to you. If he loves you he will understand
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My2Beauties |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 10:32 AM
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My Baby Girls!!! Group: Moderators Posts: 12,448 Member No.: 467 Joined: 4-May 04 |
I was on the pill and DH pulled out as well with both of my kids Nothing is fool-proof. So I'd say he needs to suck it up and use the condom.
-------------------- LeaAnn, wife to Brian (05/21/2005)
Mommy to Hanna Marie (11/14/2003) Mommy to Aubrey Lynn (05/01/2007) Step-mommy to Desiree Ann (11/14/1995) My MySpace Page |
Swood75 |
Posted: Sep 19 2007, 11:31 AM
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Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 1,091 Member No.: 4,901 Joined: 26-August 06 |
Well,we have ALWAYS used the pull-out method and it has worked everytime...That has been 15 1/2 yrs..And both of the kids were planned..
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gr33n3y3z |
Posted: Sep 20 2007, 03:54 AM
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Doin Good :~ Group: Moderators Posts: 15,274 Member No.: 822 Joined: 13-October 04 |
its time he takes some responcability in your relationship and if he has to wear one then he will wear one he will get over it and if not then he isnt the right one for you bc then that should tell you he only thinks for himself....... you tried so hard to make this work your just not ment to be on those pills. -------------------- Wife to Ed (Redchief)
Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin "Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear" |
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