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> I'm -negative again, but I'm not happy
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  Posted: Jun 15 2009, 03:50 AM
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So after waiting a week to get the results for my last blood tests, I was told my hcg is negative and was given the ok to TTC again.

I should be happy about this, but I'm not.....I guess in my mind I had it set that some miracle would happen and I'd still be pregnant (how absolutely silly is that???). I'm having such a hard time moving on from this loss and I know I'm not ready to TTC again.

I don't know what I would do if we lost a forth baby. sad.gif


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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 04:13 AM
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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 04:27 AM
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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:07 AM
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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:07 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you're not ready to TTC again, then wait until you are. You don't have to do this until YOU are ready... no one will think badly of you. hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:09 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif I'm so sorry Marie! Only you will know when the time is right!


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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 07:11 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif Oh Marie I'm SO sorry you have been having such a rough time lately!!!!


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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 07:28 AM
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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 09:29 AM
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Wait hun if you dont think your ready! Let your body heal and let your self emotionally heal as well. (((HUGS)))


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Posted: Jun 15 2009, 10:43 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif I know what you mean about hoping for a miracle. When I had my m/c I had to go in for a u/s after I'd already lost the baby and stopped bleeding because I was not convinced that my baby was gone. I didn't fully believe it until I saw for myself that there was nothing in there.

I wanted to try again right away - I got my first period 3 weeks after the m/c and then got pg with Allie two weeks after that. It was what we wanted, but I had a hard time with it for the first couple months at least. I was still wishing for the baby I'd lost, and just couldn't seem to get excited about being pregnant again for awhile. I was glad too, but at the same time it was hard to be happy about a baby that wouldn't have been there if I hadn't lost the other one. I think if we had waited just another month or two it would have been a little easier... as it happened so little time passed between my miscarriage and getting pregnant again, and it still seemed to me that I should still be pregnant with the baby we lost.

The point in all my rambling rolleyes.gif is that if you don't feel ready yet then it won't hurt to wait another few weeks. Take all the time you need to grieve and let your body heal. hug.gif hug.gif


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