primetime epiosode on swinging,, asexuals and dancers

I saw this episode and it compleatly surprised me to see that there are people who consider themselves asexuals. how can one not be attracted to another person, then again there are animals who are asexual so why not people? and then the swingers thing was very interesting. i hope they re show so some of you can see it if the topic interests you.

yeah I kinda watched some of that last night it was totally crazy!!!

I missed it. And I even played hookie last night!


What was the story behind dancers? That seems odd that dancers (I am assuming for adult entertainment) would be lumped into a show about asexuals and swingers.

Dang I missed it too! I too find it odd that a married couple chooses not to have sex....what was their reasoning?

the dancers were there to show that they are not all skanky girls who bed every man who comes into the club and that they have families and they don't all do drugs. They even have to pay to dance on the stage as they are "private contractors" and shell out $75-$200 to get on the stage each night. they talked about their cliental.

they claim to have no attraction sexualy to their husbands or wives. I can't really discribe it because I don't much understand it myself.

they claim to have no attraction sexualy to their husbands or wives. I can't really discribe it because I don't much understand it myself. [/QUOTE]










um... asexual? I'm thinkin thats me. I don't get it either. I wish things weren't this way, but I can't tell you the last time I "WANTED" to DTD. Probably when we concieved Ally, but that wasn't hormones, that was becuase i wanted a baby.
Ive seen a therapist about it, but I quit because I don't think she was helping me at all, and it was getting spendy.

This post has been edited by PrairieMom on Sep 6 2006, 12:40 PM

they claim to have no attraction sexualy to their husbands or wives. I can't really discribe it because I don't much understand it myself.

Not that hard to understand... how many of us complain that our dh's and us don't get it on? I know I haven't had it for about 2 months.

How many of us think once in a while... "i hope he's not in the mood because I'm certainly not!"?

It's just more than usual, that's all...I understand them.

Is it the unattraction sexually to the other partner, or is it things outside of the bedroom that cause that unattraction in the bedroom?

I am curious now. I did not know it was all that common.

They just don't find sex appealing. one girl tried batting for the other team and still didn't find sex exciting. they have a website and I'm trying to remember the name of it....