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luvbug00 |
Posted: Oct 30 2006, 06:38 AM
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awhat! Group: Members Posts: 10,756 Member No.: 1,984 Joined: 6-June 05 |
So lars is being realy confusing. Basically Lars has always said where he sees us in the future. And where he wants us to end up. I'm good with that. What i'm not good with is this thing he does. I call it "wall building" he says somthing really intence like "i could love you forever" but then immidiatly after he changes the subject. Never takes back what he says but somtimes he says things that are soo hard to interpert. That i need further explination to understand but he won't develop on it. He never says anything like this in the heat of passion ( which may be because we have only kissed ) so i don't think he is saying it just to say it. kwim. And it would be easy to kind of just let it go if it were small things but he says stuff that is really ..wow and I am not sure what to think because we haven't even established ourselfs as boyfriend and girlfriend. (I'm not down for labels yet) I don't know. I really want this to work you know. He is an amazing person and I just don't want to pressure him and i want him to feel comfortable talking to me. I know he wants to tell me how he feels and i know he is afraid because he too really wants this to work. i dunno...Can anyone tell me what he may be thinking??
-------------------- Mya 7-1-00 |
MyBrownEyedBoy |
Posted: Oct 30 2006, 07:09 AM
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Just funny! Group: Members Posts: 6,336 Member No.: 2,273 Joined: 27-July 05 |
Maybe he's changing the subject to avoid making you feel like you have to say anything back.
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gr33n3y3z |
Posted: Oct 30 2006, 07:31 AM
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Doin Good :~ Group: Moderators Posts: 15,274 Member No.: 822 Joined: 13-October 04 |
Just ask what he means by what he says
-------------------- Wife to Ed (Redchief)
Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin "Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear" |
mysweetpeasWil&Wes |
Posted: Oct 30 2006, 10:01 AM
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Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 8,735 Member No.: 1,474 Joined: 1-March 05 |
I agree with Kelly. He probably is feeling a bit insecure for putting so much out there so soon and doesn't want you to feel pressured to use the L word back to him, kwim? It's good he's not taking any of what he says back. Sounds like a good guy. Lisa is smart...just be straightforward and ask him what he means. Making assumptions always got me in trouble!
-------------------- Rae SAHM to Wil (4) and Wesley (2) ~ Wife to Richard 10/20/01
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C&K*s Mommie |
Posted: Nov 2 2006, 03:04 AM
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President & CEO of the CNCK Corporation Group: Members Posts: 12,875 Member No.: 2,622 Joined: 6-October 05 |
agreed with coming forth and asking what he means.
-------------------- *~*wife to Christopher for 5yrs~*~
~*~mother to Christian (5) & Kellie (3.5)*~* |