Hi my name is Kelly. I have 6 kids. I had Cole when I was in Collage. My mom helped me raise him till I got married when he was 1. Then I had Cody 3, Kayla 2, and Chase 8 months. Cole now lives with his father most of the time. Cody Kayla and Chase live with me but see their father all the time. We ended up getting a divorce well I was still early in my pregnancy with Chase. Just recently my two younger siblings moved in with me. They are 15 and 14. They are giving a lot of trouble right now and I am really not sure how to deal with them. Anyways with all these changes I have met this wonderful guy but have not brought him into the kids life. Cole is acting out. He hates living with his father. He moved there about 6 months ago. I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. My ex husband and I planed the divorce before Kayla was born but we where waiting till Kayla was 1 because he couldn't live away from her and he wanted her to nurse till she was one. We still have a good relationship with each other which is a lot better then mine with Cole's father. Anyways I am rambling like I always do when I am nervous so I better just get to the point. I wanted to know what you all think about introducing this new guy? Like when and how? He has 4 kids of his own. His kids are 13, 9, 2, and 2.