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CantWait	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 04:57 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	I know I was barely even pregnant, only 5 weeks when I started to lose the "baby", my goodness there wasn't even a heartbeat, but I was really looking forward to this baby. I mean, we actually planned this pregnancy. I would never give up either of the boys, I just find it odd that the two pregnancies that were unplanned surprises were completely healthy, and the one that was planned and expected, failed. Why does it hurt so much, and when does it go away??? Everytime someone brings up a baby, or everytime I see a pink or purple stroller on the street, my heart sinks. And now Ron isn't even sure if he wants to try again -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

gr33n3y3z	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 05:57 AM
Doin Good :~ Group: Moderators Posts: 15,274 Member No.: 822 Joined: 13-October 04	Its still a loss no matter how or what happend your feelings are very normal sweetie -------------------- Wife to Ed (Redchief) Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin "Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear"

booey2	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:26 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 5,081 Member No.: 101 Joined: 7-April 03	I am sorry Marie, I can't even fathom your pain as I haven't experienced a loss such as this. You have every right to feel this way. May your pain ease over time. -------------------- Terri He is in a happier place.

my2monkeyboys	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:30 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05	--------------------

PrairieMom	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 07:53 AM
Ruby Member Group: Members Posts: 12,652 Member No.: 2,561 Joined: 24-September 05	I have no idea what you are going through. I can't even imagine it. Give Ron time. I'm sure he is hurting too.

ZandersMama	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:32 AM
Jesus answers knee mail Group: Members Posts: 2,963 Member No.: 1,776 Joined: 22-April 05	i know how hard it is, and it sucks .give yourself some time to grieve. im sure ron will come around, he is grieving to. --------------------

Mommy2Isabella	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:33 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 2,917 Member No.: 3,075 Joined: 9-January 06	A loss is a loss! Give it some time, and I am sure Ron will come around as well! -------------------- Jessica Wife to Salvador 12.23.05 Mommy to Isabella 8.8.06 & Isaia 1.2.08 & Ian 8.28.09

lisar	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 08:52 AM
Yes it is I.... Group: Members Posts: 11,727 Member No.: 1,760 Joined: 20-April 05

A&A'smommy	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 09:06 AM
Praying For Spencer Group: Moderators Posts: 29,769 Member No.: 243 Joined: 11-August 03	I'm sorry sweetie you just need some time to heal, Ron probably needs time too!! --------------------

jacobsmama	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 10:18 AM
KRISTI :) Group: Members Posts: 3,337 Member No.: 2,060 Joined: 21-June 05	I agree with everyone, it is a total heartache regardless of how it happens. Ron is probably having those feelings too because he sees you hurting and doesn't want either of you to go through it ever again. He will soon realize that time will heal this pain and you will try again.. -------------------- Mother to Jacob & Conner. Wife to Loren

cameragirl21	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 11:19 AM
Treehugger and proud Group: Members Posts: 5,056 Member No.: 4,205 Joined: 20-July 06	Marie, I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I really hope you will get your baby girl, or baby boy if that is what your third baby is meant to be and I hope Ron comes around soon. No matter how short your pregnancy, I'm sure this comes as a big shock to everyone. -------------------- Another mother's breaking heart is taking over When the violence causes silence We must be mistaken.... --The Cranberries

Jackie012007	Posted: Dec 28 2008, 12:30 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 1,273 Member No.: 4,017 Joined: 22-June 06	oh Marie! it doesn't matter when it happened, it still hurts. I lost an unplanned pregnancy last April and I was devastated all the same. I'm so sorry, and NEVER feel silly for being sad for a loss -------------------- Jackie - mama to Carly Evelyn (01-05-07) and Bride-to-Be (02-28-09)

mckayleesmom	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 09:24 AM
The hair I wish I had...lol Group: Members Posts: 21,560 Member No.: 157 Joined: 4-May 03	You lost a baby..regardless of how far along you were. The moment you read that pregnancy test you had hopes and dreams of for and of this child...Its hard to just shut that off. -------------------- Brianne Wife to Leithan and mommy to Mckaylee (4) and Russell (3) Click here to help us grown our village http://schwartzville.myminicity.com/

Brias3	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 02:04 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 2,930 Member No.: 3,419 Joined: 12-March 06	Oh, Marie, don't feel silly at all- a loss is a loss no matter what, and you have ever right to feel the way you do! Just know we are all here to talk if you need to, and things will turn out for you exactly as they are meant to be! -------------------- Bria, Wife to Bruce Mom to Ryan (10), Aliyah (8), and Mason (5)

CantWait	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 04:05 PM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	Thank you everyone for your kind words. I just needed to know that what I was feeling was normal and that I wasn't completely out of touch with reality. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

Maddie&EthansMom	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 04:41 PM
Diamond Member Group: Moderators Posts: 16,534 Member No.: 235 Joined: 30-July 03	Marie I'm so sorry. Give it some time and you and Ron will be ready to try again.

HuskerMom	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 06:20 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,386 Member No.: 7,388 Joined: 1-January 07	-------------------- Joni

MommyToAshley	Posted: Dec 29 2008, 09:21 PM
Happy Spring! Group: Administrators Posts: 27,473 Member No.: 2 Joined: 8-February 03	Marie, I'm so sorry for your loss. -------------------- Dee Dee , Mommy to: Ashley Marie 9/05/02 Joshua Lee 2/03/00 (Our Angel in Heaven)

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