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MomToMany |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 04:39 AM
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His teacher called yesterday to tell me that he had told 2 girls that he was going to tie them up, paint circles on their heads, and shoot them
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I feel like the WORST mother in the world. I knew there was a reason the boys shouldn't go to their dad's. This post has been edited by teddybearmom on Dec 12 2003, 04:48 AM |
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ediep |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 06:34 AM
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wow, thats tough......That is definately a reason, as far as I am concerned, not to go to their dads. I mean, if he may get expelled over this.....maybe next time he visits his dad, have a chat with your ex-dh and tell him what happened at school and how he said he watched killer movies at his house. So sorry that you are dealing with this.
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Kaitlin'smom |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 07:34 AM
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Oh I am soo sorry, your not a bad mom, you probalbly dont have much choise when it come to letting them go to there dads. This is not your fault but something that need to be handled quickly. I hope you can find some answers from him on why he feels the need to do this and maybe get him help, and as for the father he should be told about this and asked what are you going to do to help your son, if he does not care than I would have to see about trying to take visitations away until your son is better. I am sorry your dealing with all this espically this time of year. Get some rest and clear your head and talk and spend time with your son. We are here for you and will be glad to help any way I can for now I send you tons of hugs!
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kimberley |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 07:58 AM
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MomofTay&Sam |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 11:28 AM
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Ugh again we share the same boat on this one. I do not allow anything over PG and dear daddy lets him watch whatever he wants. I think little boys go thru the *kill* stage anyways, it just needs alot of talking and explaining. Forgot about trying to get thru to their dad, that is impossible. I know in NY there is a zero tolerance rule and a child would be expelled for saying anything like that. Are you able to sit down with him and have a discusion that he understands? My oldest is 11 and thank god has out grown all of that, he knows there are serious outcomes if he were to talk that way. I hope you can find something that works for you and him. Good Luck, sorry for rambling.....
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Posted: Dec 12 2003, 11:58 AM
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I am so sorry you are going through that. Try not to beat yourself up about it. It sounds like the root of the problem is your ex. I agree with boys going through the *kill* stage, my little brother was obsessed with knives when he was younger we even called him Blade instead of Jarrod...............ok kind of weird! But we teased his obsession and we were kids too. I think everyone has to grow up dealing with talking through their agression and maybe his comments about the bully at school were just that. You are doing the right thing looking into getting help for him, you can stop it before it starts let him talk it out and better understand himself. I truly feel for you and can't even fathom how hard this must be for you to deal with. Best of luck, I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.
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Maddie&EthansMom |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 03:20 PM
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My parents are going through the same thing with my nephew. They have him most of the time, but when he is at his mom's she lets him get by with anything. The child knows WAY too much about drugs, murder, scary and gorey movies. (he is only 5!!) It breaks my heart.
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A&A'smommy |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 03:24 PM
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omg what a great father!!! You are NOT a bad mother in any way shape or form!!!! I hope things get better soon!!!! (((((HUGS))))
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alice&arik |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 06:37 PM
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Sounds like something Ex Dork would do. He is such an idiot. I don't think the kids should go and see him anymore, or until he learns how to take care of them, and know what they should or should not watch. Hopefully Logan will learn that saying stuff like that isn't right, but I agree that it could be a phase. Everyone says stuff that they don't mean. I don't know much about kids that age, but I know when I was little I said some stupid stuff too.
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MommyToAshley |
Posted: Dec 12 2003, 07:13 PM
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(((((HUGS)))))
First of all, YOU are an AWESOME Mom.... I can tell that by your posts. Maybe you can have a talk with your Ex and if things don't change, maybe you can go to court to get his visitations taken away. I am sure the school would back you on this one. I agree that the root of all this might be what he watches on TV at Dads... he may not mean it, just repeating what he hears and sees there. I hope he doesn't get suspended and you are able to help him understand why the things he said were wrong. -------------------- |
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Posted: Dec 13 2003, 05:05 AM
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MomToMany |
Posted: Dec 13 2003, 06:19 AM
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Thanks everyone for the support! I'm glad I can vent/cry to you guys! I'm going to call his dad today and explain everything to him.
I'm not sure what it would take to get the visitations to stop, but I know that he would fight me on that, even though he doesn't care about the kids that much. |
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