Flirting, okay or not

do you flirt?

how does your DH/DW/SO feel about it?


does it bother you to know your DH/DW/SO flirts?

what about if your out and someone is fliriting with either of you how do you handle it? I am talking suttle flirting not the blaton I gonna take you home no matter what thing.

Both my DH and I flirt. I think it is heathly as long as you know to end it. It doesn't bother us though. We kinda laugh at it.

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do you flirt? yes

how does your DH/DW/SO feel about it? it really does not bother him, he actually like when we are out together and a bit of flirting goes on, makes when we get home that much more fun.....course I guess thats cause we tend to flirt more with each other


does it bother you to know your DH/DW/SO flirts? nope not at all, infact if someone like a watress does it, weither its for real or to boost a tip, I think its cute, just makes me smile that he s mine. thats as long as they dont try and take it to far, espically if I am with him

what about if your out and someone is fliriting with either of you how do you handle it? I am talking suttle flirting not the blaton I gonna take you home no matter what thing. we flirt back, but only to a point we dont want it to get to far, I have flirted with bartenders to get drinks or extra things, so has he thats how we got a couple shot glasses

I never used to think I was flirt until a conversation with Jasn and my sisters a while ago, apparently I am a natural flirt! or at least that's how I come across. Jason is a little bit too:

Do you flirt? apparently so, although it really is unintentional!

how does your DH/DW/SO feel about it? I don't think he likes when another guy is paying me too much attention - he likes it at first bu then he gets mad if they're getting a bit touchy feely


does it bother you to know your DH/DW/SO flirts? No, because I honestly don't think he'd do anything about it. He doesn't do it as much as I do

what about if your out and someone is fliriting with either of you how do you handle it? I am talking suttle flirting not the blaton I gonna take you home no matter what thing. We would both walk away, I don't like it when that happens with Jason but he will usually come over to me and tell me he loves me blah blah and it didn't mean anything. If its the other way, Jason will soemtimes get a bit protective, come over to me and either hold my hand, touch me in some way or just pul me away xx

I guess I can say I probably "flirt" a bit with our clients/members....but in a good way...not a sexual sort of way. Does that even make sense?

Does it bother DH...no not really..he knows that it comes along with the job and politics and he also knows I don't flirt liked I'd flirt with someone I had a "thing" for, hee hee. He trusts me.

Does it bother me if DH did? Well if he was doing it per se because it came along with his job and it wasn't *really* flirting I'd be fine with it. But I'd have to ask because he deals mostly with men..I'd be a bit leary of this. BUT if it was with a woman like at a restaurant or any other situation...I'd be upset.

this is a hard topic for me because of my job. i am a bartender, so a bit of insignificant flirting happens from time to time. it drives DH nuts! but the fact is, i am not even remotely interested in any of these people, i just gotta play the part to make $$. it is not a glamorous job

DH doesn't flirt, so no worries there. at least not when i can see him. if he did, it would bother me because he doesn't often flirt with me! we both get irritated when other people flirt with us. prolly him moreso than me.

I am a very blatant and natural flirt. My husband loves this about me! He thinks it means I have a great personality.

And he isn't above me flirting to better him, better price, cheaper deal etc..It's funny. He will say any you deal with him and so him them big blue eyes..lol

My spouse is whether shy actually. And I love it when someone flirts with him. He get red and flustered.

He was going to a club where I knew a waitress that worked there, He didn't know her at all, I stopped by there and gave her some money and told her to be sure and buy my husband a drink( he always says no one ever buys him a drink, like they do me) she said he almost fell over dead, tried to refused it..then he went in the bathroom called me and said honey some girl is buying me drinks do u want me to leave, or can I drink it......that is too funny

LOL funny! how loyal

do you flirt? I flirt with DH at times, but not with other men. I don't see anything wrong with it, I'm just not a flirt.

how does your DH/DW/SO feel about it?


does it bother you to know your DH/DW/SO flirts? DH flirts more than I do. He is just a charmer. It is the salesman in him. I love when he flirts with me. I wish he would do it more.

Nope, no flirting here by anybody. I would get extremely upset to see DH flirt with someone else. I would never do it either. We don't even flirt with each other.

Heck, we've both been flirting for 20 some years. We never do it seriously though and we both know who we really love.

The only times I'd say it's improper:
1. If you've been arguing and it's not resolved
2. If your SO has a problem with the particular indiv. you're tempted to flirt with
3. Oh, yeah; it would also be improper to flirt with another if your SO is currently flirting with you (we still do that... funny huh?)

Do i flirt yes

how does your DH/DW/SO feel about it? hates it he wont go to a bar with me or take me to his work paries cause im a friendly flirt( i have to work on stopping it)
i doo flirt a bit too much


does it bother you to know your DH/DW/SO flirts?yes!! im a jealous person

what about if your out and someone is fliriting with either of you how do you handle it? I am talking suttle flirting not the blaton I gonna take you home no matter what thing. WE dont go out to bars for this reason.. cause we would freak out on eachother....i cant handle the thought of darryl flirting with another girl...
im a very jealous person!! I really have to work on not being so jealous i know Darryl does love me!

LOL of course I flirt I'm a dirty old lady
But I only flirt with ppl. I know and as long as the SO is cool with it and they are always cool with it.
Hubby flirts as much as I do and I say go for it.
I love my hubby

This post has been edited by gr33n3y3z on Nov 10 2004, 04:48 PM

I am flirtatious in nature. It pissed my husband off in the begining of our marriage b/c he felt as though I was still into other guys. True I was... But, I was married and I knew that and I wasn't prepaired to cheat on him at that time. Afterall, what he doens't know won't hurt him all the time.

I don't know, maybe I'm a hardass, but I find flirting while in a marriage/relationship a little disrespectful.

we both flirt!!

how about with each other?

You mean TO each other? Or do you mean flirting with other people while in the same room with dh?

okay to each other, kinda like you pretend to not know each other and you flirt and try and pick them up sort of thing...make sence what i am tringto get at