So Aron came for a talk...

[mummy2girls]

We (me and marcus) sat down with aron to talk about EVERYTHING!!! I let marcus ask questions as well.... One thing though, Marcus said to aron... I know im just the step dad but i feel like I shouldnt be able to sit here and say you can or can not see your daughter. I feel like that is Shelly's choice because ultimately she is the mom and your the dad. Aron looks at him and says But marcus im giving you that authority. You know I have known aron for over 9 years and i know when he is genuine or a faker. I dont trust him yet because of everything but i am wanting to take baby steps to let him get what he had back. He is willing to do anything to get back that with jenna and such. All in all it was a good talk. Also... he sees me, marcus and jenna a family. he keeps saying you and marcus/shelly are jennas family. yes im teh dad n=but your her "family". He sees himself as an outsider looking in. I dont want that. I want aron to know he is jennas family as well. I think he realizes the crap he put himself into with all of this. I know he has been clean because he got a new job that started a few motnhs back and part of the job you get routine drug/alcohol tests done, so he is willing to show us those. yes its hard to say ok i believe you your clean but for this to turn into something i have to trust those tests.. its a sucky spot i hate to be in but im in it. As much as i would like to say no you cant see her i cant because if he does choose to take us to court the judge will see he isnt using/dealing, he has a good job that does routine tests, he is in a program and is turning his lufe around they will give him some sort of right to see her.

a side note... He came and told us that him and Bea is now officially engaged. he got her a ring, and they set a date and booked the hall and church. July 25th ...Also i now want to sit down with bea and talk to her about everything as well. She wants to talk to me too. So a one on one talk about jenna, her smoking driving etc. She knows i know about these things and she wants to talk it out... So wish me luck in that one...LOL

[mckayleesmom]

Good Luck. I really hope that for Jenna's sake that Aaron got a wake up call and has really changed this time.