Af while breastfeeding

With Riley my PP bleeding stopped after about 2 1/2 weeks. At 6 weeks and for every 2 weeks after that for awhile I had spotting. Then it was 6 weeks between the spotting and what seemed like a normal flow. Now its been 8 weeks and nothing? home pregnancy test says negative...and Ive been super super careful the odd time I left my boyfriend near me as I accidently got pregnant at exactly 6 weeks after having my daughter. I am breastfeeding but have recently introduced solids so hes drinking less so shouldnt I be getting it back if it was the breastfeeding that was making it stop?

When was your last real period?

while I was bfing my af was really wacky all the time it started when the baby was 6 months and was never regulaer or if it did come was was short . I did always get symptoms as normal even with out. I many times got scared .

about 8 weeks ago. I keep getting cramping and backaches like its going to come but then it never does

tested again today just to be sure and it was negative...should I make a doctors appointment?

Don't know. My PP bleeding stopped after about 3 weeks, and my AF started right up like clock work 28 days later, even tho I was exclusively BF.

I cant even guage off after my last baby because I never got AF back after her because I got pregnant again so fast. Maybe Ill give it a few more weeks. I have a bunch of dental work to take care of so once that settles down maybe if there still isnt anything Ill make an appointment just to make sure nothing is going on.

looks like it finally showed up...the day after I put white sheets on our bed