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> I'm thinking about calling my doctor, on monday
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Posted: Jun 30 2007, 08:19 PM
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I have been feeling seriously down for about a month. I've had the blues off and on since having Allie, but nothing really major that lasted more than a day or two and made me think I was depressed. Now though I feel the way I did when I used to struggle with depression years ago. I know the signs... I just don't know if it's postpartum or plain old depression. Does it matter? I don't know if I can go to my OB for this, or if I have to go to a regular doctor. I'd rather go to my OB because I'm comfortable with her - I haven't been to any regular doc enough times to feel like I know them... I always end up with a different one because I just make an appointment with whomever I can see the quickest when I'm sick you know?

After I had Andrew I felt like this but my progesterone cream made it go away. It's not working for me this time - maybe because my cycle has been all over the place and I don't think I'm using the cream at the right time in my cycle for it to work. Or maybe it's just not the same thing - after Andrew I think it was just my crazy pms depression that I always get. Maybe this time I actually have PPD, I don't know. sleep.gif Before kids I would have just lived with it or tried to overcome it on my own before going to a doctor because I hate taking drugs. But I hate that I never feel like playing with Andrew, and I think that maybe I'm the reason he's been acting up lately. sad.gif Dh isn't big on drugs either, but he said I should go. I just hope I can make myself call, and that I don't have to wait weeks to get in or something.


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Posted: Jun 30 2007, 08:59 PM
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I think you should call - bright and early Monday morning. What do you have to lose ? I would call your OB since you feel most comfortable with her. I wish you the very best of luck. Keep the Faith and make the call !


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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 02:48 AM
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I called my OB when I started feeling that way, it probabaly is PP related, but I don't think it really matters

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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 04:28 AM
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I agree that it shouldn't matter what the cause is, I would suggest calling the OB. Even just to talk about it will make you feel better. Good Luck and know we are always here to listen if nothing else.

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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 04:53 AM
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I went through the EXACT same thing Sara - very lifeless is how I felt - nothing excited me, etc. I think it was a combo or past depression/ppd and the overwhelmingness (not sure if that is a word but you get what I am saying:) of two kids.....I called my OB since he was the last one to "treat" me so if you are comfortable with your OB I say definately call her - I am taking Wellbutrin XL - it is wonderful - I have always had bad side effects from depression meds but this one causes nothing for me and has really helped to lift the "fog" I felt....

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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 07:47 AM
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I'd start with your OB, I hope you're able to get some relief. That "down" feeling can really suck you dry. KUP hug.gif hug.gif
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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 01:42 PM
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call the OB and Family Dr and see who calls back first to help you smile.gif
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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 03:17 PM
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SARA, just wanted to wish you the best, and say what a strong person you are, to go thru this and admit when you need help. I hope that the dr is able to help you.
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Posted: Jul 1 2007, 04:37 PM
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Thanks everyone. hug.gif I'm going to call my OB since I know her best. I'll call in the morning ~ hopefully I'll be able to get an appointment for SOON.

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I went through the EXACT same thing Sara - very lifeless is how I felt - nothing excited me, etc.  I think it was a combo or past depression/ppd and the overwhelmingness (not sure if that is a word but you get what I am saying:) of two kids.....I called my OB since he was the last one to "treat" me so if you are comfortable with your OB I say definately call her - I am taking Wellbutrin XL - it is wonderful - I have always had bad side effects from depression meds but this one causes nothing for me and has really helped to lift the "fog" I felt....

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Christine what you described is exactly how I'm feeling. I feel like someone just sucked all the life out of me and I don't care about anything. I think I'll ask my doctor about Wellbutrin. The only depression/anxiety med I've ever been on was paxil and I didn't like it much. I've heard that wellbutrin is a good one and doesn't make your sex drive go down - I don't have much of a sex drive to begin with I can't really afford to lose what I've got. blush.gif


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Posted: Jul 2 2007, 05:39 AM
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Whether it's PPD or plain old depression, the treatment is the same. I'd say- if you're comfortable with your OB, go with her. Anyone can prescribe anti-depressants. Keep in mind, though, that each med is slightly different, and works differently on different chemistries. Just because paxil didn't work for you, or Wellbutrin worked well for someone else, doesn't mean it's a one size fits all type of thing. You may have to experiment with different meds and/or dosages before you find the right fit for you. The bottom line is, there is no reason to suffer indefinitely with those types of symptoms. Your life and your kids are waiting for the best version of you to come back out to play. There is no shame in needing/taking meds if your chemistry isn't where you need it to be. It's not a character flaw to need a little help righting your ship, nor is it a sign of "strength" to grit your teeth and be miserable, just so you can avoid taking meds. If you need 'em, take 'em. You won't regret it.
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Posted: Jul 2 2007, 07:15 AM
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Well I called and made an appointment. I ended up getting an appointment with the nurse practitioner at the women's clinic though ~ my OB had a long waiting list. dry.gif I'm a little bummed because I really would feel more comfortable with my OB, but at least it's at her clinic, and a friend of mine has been to the lady I'll be seeing today and she says she's nice. happy.gif


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Posted: Jul 2 2007, 08:52 AM
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Glad you called and wishing you the very best ! smile.gif

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