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~Roo'sMama~ |
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I was talking to my sister on the phone today - I'd called her about something and we just started talking, and she started talking about how sick she is (she's almost 9 weeks pregnant - I was due the week before she is) and all I could think was how much I'd give to have morning sickness right now. I do feel bad for her because she gets horrible m/s, but I wouldn't care if I felt like I was dying. At least she knows that her baby is ok. She also mentioned that she's having her first prenatal appointment soon, and of course that made me think about how I found out I was going to miscarry only 2 days before what was supposed to be my first prenatal appointment.
![]() It feels so unfair and just plain wrong. I wish this had never happened and I had my baby. I never got to feel it kicking or see it on an ultrasound, except for the u/s we had in the ER after it had already died. ![]() ![]() ![]() -------------------- |
jacobsmama |
Posted: May 1 2006, 06:39 PM
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know that pain and emptiness will take a long time to heal and I think the best thing to do is when you feel that pain and sorrow grab ahold of your baby boy and just hold him and remember what you do have here on earth ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() -------------------- Mother to Jacob & Conner. Wife to Loren |
mummy2girls |
Posted: May 1 2006, 07:15 PM
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oh hun((((HUGS))))
I know exactly what you are feeling hun! And i feel for your pain! My brother GF was pregnant same time i was with Jordan. When i Lost him I felt at loss for words! Hearing her talk about her pains she is feeling and all her m/s was hard on me! And then when i saw the baby after he was born was soooo hard! My advice... Take it at your one pace. Please dont feel you have to hold that baby right after he/she is born. Let your sister know that you loove your niece/nephew but that you have to accept the baby at your own pace. be honest with her... and if she truely does care about your feelings she will understand. It took me a few motnhs to bond with my nephew. I told my brother and his GF that they cant push him on me or ill resent him. To let me do it at my own pace and they understood. Some people will push a newborn on you thinking it will heal the pain of what you lost. They dont mean to be mean they just dont know how to handle the stuation. I wish i was there to give you a hug(((HUGS)))) -------------------- |
kayla's mama |
Posted: May 1 2006, 07:50 PM
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Oh hun
![]() ![]() I agree with Shelly, take your new neice or nephew at your own pace. I'm sure your sister will understand. My heart is going out to you. Stay strong ![]() ![]() ![]() -------------------- Brandi~~wife to Jason and Mom to Kayla
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~Roo'sMama~ |
Posted: May 2 2006, 07:57 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure my sister will understand when the time comes. I'm sure it will be hard, but hopefully by the time she has her baby I'll be ready to hold him or her. Hopefully I'll be pg by then too and maybe that will take some of the sting away.
I don't know if my sister would even have been talking about her pg to me if I hadn't told her in the beginning that I didn't want her to feel like she can't talk to me... I didn't want her joy to feel overshadowed by my pain. I just don't want to give the impression that she is being insensitive. ![]() -------------------- |
b&bsmom |
Posted: May 2 2006, 08:18 AM
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((((HUGS))))) I am so sorry you have to go through this. I can not imagine what it must feel like. I agree take it at your own pace and it sounds like your sister is senstive to what you are feeling. I know you have heard this before but things happen for a reason and this just wasn't the right time for you. Give your little one at home big hugs and enjoy your time with him. When the time is right you will have another little one to hold. Lots of thoughts and prayers your way
![]() ![]() ![]() -------------------- ![]() ![]() ![]() Stacy wife to Jim and mom to Brittany 6/24/99 and Bryce 9/9/02 I've been hit Snowball fight 2006 |
mysweetpeasWil&Wes |
Posted: May 2 2006, 02:31 PM
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