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youngmomofone	Posted: Jul 12 2009, 06:28 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 1,213 Member No.: 1,218 Joined: 12-January 05	OK as you all know, it took 4 years for us to get pregnant with this baby which is our 2nd child. My friend has been trying almost 6 years for her third. Ever since I got pregnant she's been distant. Tonight she actually gets on yahoo and she IMs me first to talk, but she wasnt very interested in it. She asked a little about the pregnancy which I replied with the bare basics because I know she's hurting and it took a lot to ask me about it. She then had to leave suddenly. I understand her feelings, but I also think that she's not being very fair. We shared many laughs and many tears together over the last 4 years, and basically that meant nothing now. -------------------- Mom to: CJ 7.03, Alexis 10.09, Taylin 5.11, and Emma and Issac 4.12. Expecting our last baby Liam Jacob in April 2013.

amymom	Posted: Jul 13 2009, 02:04 AM
The kids!! Group: Members Posts: 5,710 Member No.: 1,308 Joined: 30-January 05	It is very sad. I understand her pain, and know that as my friends became pregnant and I did not, I probably made my self distant as well. Maybe you need to bring the issue out and talk about it. It is hard for both of you, but at least you understand her pain. Some of my friends had no idea what it was like. -------------------- Anne Marie Mom to Billy & Mary Beth Wife to Lee

MommyToAshley	Posted: Jul 13 2009, 05:20 AM
Happy Spring! Group: Administrators Posts: 27,473 Member No.: 2 Joined: 8-February 03	I'm sorry. It's probably a hard situation for both of you. She did make the effort to talk and ask about the pregnancy, I am sure that was not easy for her. I agree, maybe ask her to lunch and talk face to face and let her know that you understand this is hard for her, and I am sure that will only open the doorway for heartfelt, honest conversation. Hopefully she will realize that you need your friend right now too. -------------------- Dee Dee , Mommy to: Ashley Marie 9/05/02 Joshua Lee 2/03/00 (Our Angel in Heaven)

youngmomofone	Posted: Jul 13 2009, 04:44 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 1,213 Member No.: 1,218 Joined: 12-January 05	thanks for the advice, I will see if she wants to go out to lunch sometime this week. -------------------- Mom to: CJ 7.03, Alexis 10.09, Taylin 5.11, and Emma and Issac 4.12. Expecting our last baby Liam Jacob in April 2013.

CantWait	Posted: Jul 13 2009, 09:49 PM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	-------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

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