thoughhhhts??

So last night i was hangin' with the lars we were talking again about everything and he said that he wants to make things "more serious". Durring this conversation we were also talking about the market ( we are both totally ADD and so we went back and forth) and he was showing me all his stocks. Well i was turnning my head when he would log in because A>none of my business B>i really hate money and don't want to know about it. So anyhoo while i turned my head he was like " you can look" and i was telling him "no thanks" to which he said to me "well if we get married your gonna need to know what it is". I was kinda just like alrighty then.. not sure if i should concider that a move forward or not. But I really am kinda Glad to hear what he had to say about getting serious but this is the 3rd time i've heard that one and it's not doing it for me. Actions speak louder then words and like i said earlier i have my own mental deadline and so we shall see if he is good on his word this time

I really hope for your sake and Mya's sake that he is serious this time around. I dont want to see you get hurt again. But that sounds like a move forward to me.

Just as long as your last major issues are cleared up and your all going down the right road why not BUT most important dont let Mya get hurt again from him.

it's my #1 priority, it's why he hasn't seen her still and hasn't spoken to her and she still talks and asks about him but i told her he is always going to be a friend but has to take some time to himself and she is content with that.

I am not going to settle this time for words and although it sounds demanding i really can not take anything less with so many lives and emotions on the line.

Good luck!

As you said, actions speak louder than words. So as long as you can keep that in mind and kind of take them with a grain of salt until you get the follow through, then it sounds like things are going well!