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Danalana
Posted: May 31 2010, 09:12 PM
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For our first 3 losses, I knew the dates my babies went to Heaven. For the last 3, I lost track. I honestly don't know. I feel SO horrible, but I loved them just the same as the others bawling.gif I wonder if this is normal.


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Posted: May 31 2010, 09:32 PM
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hug.gif Don't feel bad, Dana! It's hard to remember all those dates sometimes, and not remembering the exact date doesn't have anything to do with how much you loved those babies. hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:18 AM
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The kids!!
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QUOTE (~Roo'sMama~ @ Jun 1 2010, 12:32 AM)
hug.gif Don't feel bad, Dana! It's hard to remember all those dates sometimes, and not remembering the exact date doesn't have anything to do with how much you loved those babies. hug.gif hug.gif

I agree hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:39 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif Oh honey don't feel bad. Even after only 3 losses I'm forgetting the dates by heart that I lost them or they would be here. Heck I forget Robbie and Anthony's birthday sometimes (temporarily and only for a split second mind you)

It's totally normal, and doesn't mean you don't love them any less.


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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 02:45 AM
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hug.gif The dates dont matter, you hold them in your heart. hug.gif
I actually forgot that yesterday was Al's birthday until I saw a friend post about her daughters birthday on FB and remembered that they share a birhtday. blush.gif
You have a lot on your plate. You should be happy you remember to feed everyone. wink.gif
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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 05:39 AM
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QUOTE (PrairieMom @ Jun 1 2010, 02:45 AM)
You should be happy you remember to feed everyone. wink.gif

Shoot! I KNEW I was forgetting something! tongue.gif


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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 08:46 AM
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I agree, Dana. No need to feel bad about it in the least. Dates mean nothing, memories and love mean everything. hug.gif hug.gif


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Posted: Jun 1 2010, 09:00 AM
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I agree with the others. hug.gif hug.gif
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Posted: Jun 12 2010, 07:06 AM
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Dont feel bad! I think I know your thinking!
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Posted: Jun 12 2010, 07:13 AM
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hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif I'm just seeing this!!!


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Posted: Jun 12 2010, 01:06 PM
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QUOTE (my2monkeyboys @ Jun 1 2010, 12:46 PM)
Dates mean nothing, memories and love mean everything. hug.gif hug.gif

Ditto!! hug.gif


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