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Cal&Camsmom |
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Hi! I'm Jenn, I just read your post earlier about Tay & his bio-dad. I just wanted to let you know that I'm in your situation a little bit. I have a ds that will be 8 this month. His bio-dad lives in another state & hasn't seen him since he was 15 mos. old. He has called here & there & has sent gifts for b-days & x-mas & such, but has decided over the summer that he wants dh to adopt him. I haven't heard from him since that phone call.
Anyway, I wanted to let you know that my ds asks about his bio-dad once in a while (it's mostly when they're discussing the states in school). & it's hard. He does cry once in a while & I try to explain things to him. I just wanted to let you know that I understand how you & Tay feel. ![]() Jenn ![]() -------------------- |
My2Carebears |
Posted: Nov 9 2003, 06:26 AM
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Sorry to nose in, but I understand too!
My oldest daygther Abri who is 6. She is not my Husbands Bio-daugther. She has never once in 6 years met her dad or even heard from him. My DH has been with us since Abri was 8 months old and heis the only dad she knows of. It makes me angry her dad doesn't seem to care, Seeing how his dad was never in his life. I will tell her about him when i know she can understand, and let her decide if she wants to see him. I was told when i was pregnant with her that if a father has no kid of contact for 7 years, his rights are automatically taken away. I am not sure if it still stands or not. Anyways Its good to know there are other people like me out there!! We should have our own Club! -------------------- ~*~*CARY~*~*
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Cal&Camsmom |
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We definitely need our own club!
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MomofTay&Sam |
Posted: Nov 16 2003, 10:11 AM
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Hi guys!
I agree we need our own club. I can't figure out how they can be in and out of their lives and it doesnt bother them? How can you just *move* on? It's so hard on the kids, I stayed in my marriage well after it was over just for Tay, than it just started getting really ugly. ![]() ![]() -------------------- Mommy to two wonderful boys!
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