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CantWait	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 03:50 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	So after waiting a week to get the results for my last blood tests, I was told my hcg is negative and was given the ok to TTC again. I should be happy about this, but I'm not.....I guess in my mind I had it set that some miracle would happen and I'd still be pregnant (how absolutely silly is that???). I'm having such a hard time moving on from this loss and I know I'm not ready to TTC again. I don't know what I would do if we lost a forth baby. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

luvmykids	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 04:13 AM
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My3LilMonkeys	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 04:27 AM
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my2monkeyboys	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:07 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05	double post This post has been edited by my2monkeyboys on Jun 15 2009, 05:08 AM --------------------

my2monkeyboys	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:07 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,197 Member No.: 2,245 Joined: 21-July 05	I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you're not ready to TTC again, then wait until you are. You don't have to do this until YOU are ready... no one will think badly of you. --------------------

Our Lil' Family	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 05:09 AM
We're a Who Dat family! Group: Moderators Posts: 4,458 Member No.: 2,459 Joined: 9-September 05	I'm so sorry Marie! Only you will know when the time is right! -------------------- Naomi, Wife to Tim & Mommy to Thomas (7) and Andrew (2)

A&A'smommy	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 07:11 AM
Praying For Spencer Group: Moderators Posts: 29,769 Member No.: 243 Joined: 11-August 03	Oh Marie I'm SO sorry you have been having such a rough time lately!!!! --------------------

coasterqueen	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 07:28 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 27,917 Member No.: 236 Joined: 4-August 03	-------------------- *~Karen~* wife to hubby, Ryan Douglas mommy to Kylie (9) and Megan (6.5) and furbabies Gavin, Buster, Sox, and Hailey

mummy2girls	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 09:29 AM
Thinking of you Spencer! Group: Members Posts: 12,708 Member No.: 156 Joined: 4-May 03	Wait hun if you dont think your ready! Let your body heal and let your self emotionally heal as well. (((HUGS))) --------------------

~Roo'sMama~	Posted: Jun 15 2009, 10:43 AM
My two cuties :) Group: Members Posts: 7,394 Member No.: 788 Joined: 29-September 04	I know what you mean about hoping for a miracle. When I had my m/c I had to go in for a u/s after I'd already lost the baby and stopped bleeding because I was not convinced that my baby was gone. I didn't fully believe it until I saw for myself that there was nothing in there. I wanted to try again right away - I got my first period 3 weeks after the m/c and then got pg with Allie two weeks after that. It was what we wanted, but I had a hard time with it for the first couple months at least. I was still wishing for the baby I'd lost, and just couldn't seem to get excited about being pregnant again for awhile. I was glad too, but at the same time it was hard to be happy about a baby that wouldn't have been there if I hadn't lost the other one. I think if we had waited just another month or two it would have been a little easier... as it happened so little time passed between my miscarriage and getting pregnant again, and it still seemed to me that I should still be pregnant with the baby we lost. The point in all my rambling is that if you don't feel ready yet then it won't hurt to wait another few weeks. Take all the time you need to grieve and let your body heal. -------------------- Sara ~ Wife to Scott, Mommy to Andrew 6-12-05, Alison 2-20-07, and our angel in heaven 4-20-06

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