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[Jackie012007]

you know, it hasn't even been a day and carl is already like "oh lets try again next month".

I seriously feel like I'm lucky to have Carly and I never want to try again to have another baby. seriously. I know he's trying to help and all, but I can't imagine going through this again. I feel at least glad that it happened so early and not in the middle or end of a pregnancy, but the thought of going through this for a third time just makes me want to focus on the child we have. I don't even want to go on a honeymoon anymore.

Frankly, I don't even care about the wedding, I'll be so glad when that is over. I had one of my bridesmaids BAIL OUT on me, 8 weeks before the wedding and literally 4 days before my shower, all over some guy. Yes, I'm serious - she wants to go to Florida this weekend with him instead of going to my shower. He asked her a week ago and she said yes without even thinking of my shower. When I pointed it out, she told me I was being selfish. And now she "doesn't want to be in my stupid wedding anyways".

This week just super sucks. Thanks for letting me whine.

If I had a fireplace, I'd burn all my POAS and infant clothing, too. There is still more coming in the mail. I never want to get pregnant again.

[ZandersMama]

it sucks. it just sucks. you have so much on your plate right now, and im so sorry. let yourself grieve hun.

[CantWait]

I'm so sorry. We're on completely oppisite ends, I on the other hand just want to be pregnant again, I can understand why you wouldn't though, and I certainly understand the pain you're going through.

Your "friend" on the other hand is being completely selfish if you ask me.

Hang in there, I hear it gets easier.

[A&A'smommy]

give yourself some time sweetie

your friend is a witch with a b

[Kirstenmumof3]

I'm so sorry! My friends bailed on me at my wedding! Take some time for yourself, you need to allow yourself to grieve!

[MommyToAshley]

I can't imagine dealing with all the stress that goes along with planning a wedding at the same time as dealing with a miscarriage. That's a lot to take in all at once.

Like others have said, give yourself some time to grieve. But, don't shut your future DH out. There's really no right or wrong way to feel... everyone deals with it in their own way. Let him know how you are feeling. I am sure if you share how you feel with him, he will understand and be willing to wait until you are ready to try again.

[HuskerMom]