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Confusing, Both angry and sad for my daughter

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Ana53	Posted: Dec 2 2008, 11:42 PM
New Member Group: Members Posts: 10 Member No.: 21,967 Joined: 26-October 08	Seems like I've gone from being completely emotionless about my daughters death from having mixed emotions. Lately everytime I think about her passing I'm almost filled with rage that she took her own life. I think its so selfish of her to only think of her feelings and not everyone elses and what we have to go through after her death. Im sure she stopped to think about how we'd all feel about her taking her own life but she went ahead and did it any way. But then again at the same time I feel so terrible that she was in so much pain that she thought suicide was the only way to go. We could have helped her with all her problems. We would have made it work out. Am I wrong to be mad at her for taking her own life?

ZandersMama	Posted: Dec 3 2008, 04:18 AM
Jesus answers knee mail Group: Members Posts: 2,963 Member No.: 1,776 Joined: 22-April 05	No, I dont think u are wrong, everyone goes through differant stages of grief. Healing takes time mama. --------------------

A&A'smommy	Posted: Dec 3 2008, 07:16 AM
Praying For Spencer Group: Moderators Posts: 29,769 Member No.: 243 Joined: 11-August 03	NO I don't think you are wrong!!!!! I agree healing takes time and you go through different stages of grief... my heart is literally breaking for you!! --------------------

lisar	Posted: Dec 3 2008, 07:18 AM
Yes it is I.... Group: Members Posts: 11,727 Member No.: 1,760 Joined: 20-April 05	No I do not think you are wrong at all. It just takes ALOT of time to grieve about something like that. You cant ponder on the what ifs.

3xsthefun	Posted: Dec 3 2008, 08:03 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 9,878 Member No.: 227 Joined: 25-July 03	No I don't think you are wrong. -------------------- Tina wife to Rob (Sept. 25, 1999) mommy to Kaitlynn (11), Maegan (7) & Ryan (3.5)

CantWait	Posted: Dec 3 2008, 08:15 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 20,387 Member No.: 28 Joined: 1-March 03	What you're going though is part of the process, it shows that at least you feel something about it and start to heal and move on. -------------------- ~Marie, mom to Robbie, 15 and Anthony, 7 and our newest addition, Mia Eliana~ ~~I promise to forget you not, my angels in heaven being watched by our fallen heroes, Dec 23 08, April 1 09, & May 18 09~~

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