So myas BFF and her mom are super close to us. The girls grew up together and K and her husband p have always been there when I needed them and vice versa.
Well turns out things went sour. (adultry on his part I hear)

anyway the kids are as expected taking it hard.
so first from the kids point of view. Mya has been talking to her BFF alot and trying to get her used to the idea because Mya obviously knows how this goes.
She and her BFF have bonded over this.
I have told mya not to ask questions she doesnt want asked of her. like "whos house do you like better" stuff like that.
Mya is always asking how she can help. I have no clue what to tell her!
any ideas???

the little girl is in need of therapy worse then the son needs it. But the son is the only one getting it because it's all K can afford and P wont give her a dime to send both the kids.
Mya is really worried about her.

The brother is old enough he doesnt have to do the visitations. However the daughter has no say and really doesnt want to go...k said the last time she had to lock her daughter out of her car to make her go to her dad.
very much how mya is about going to her dads. I definitely feel her pain on this one.

I dont know what to tell K. except make the poor little girl go because it will look better on k when she goes to court.
Apparently P has been very Brad like so helping her vent has been my main priority. And helping with the kids.

I really want to help in any way i can but I dont know what else i can do but offer my services around the house and friendship as needed.

This post has been edited by luvbug00 on Nov 1 2010, 11:32 AM