What would you do?

Im in a bad situation and i know what i should do... what would you do?

When i talked to aron when i first suspected him of things he told me he wasnt over me. He misses what we had when we were together. I told him to get over it because im over him. A LONG TIME AGO!!!! Because of some scarey situations( cant go into what) He is only allowed supervised visitations, so only if me or marcus is there. Well yesterday Aron asked if i could bring her to his and beas place so jenna can see her brother and he can too. I asked if marcus was ok with it and he said yes for sure!!! He would do anything for jenna and me too. So i went for a half hour. Well Ever since i lost the pounds i am now wearing skirts and such. yesterday i was wearing a skirt and aron started to get wierd and made me feel uncomfortable. We took the kids to the park bea went back early because chase got stung by a wasp and started to get a mild reaction. So while she was goine aron kept hitting on me, and other wierd stuff which i told him to stop. I told him i am married to marcus and I love him and i wouldnt do anything with him.

So i have decided to only have visitations at my place when marcus is home. And I told marcus that he is bugging me so he is going to say something next time he tries. Is this wrong to tell marcus... i know its putting them into a confrontation if it happens again but i just cant handle that from aron anymore. I talk with arons sister still and she said he has never been over me because he knows how stupid he was to give up what he had with me and he knows he cant have me again.. maby its a thrill for him to keep trying. I care for him as a friend but thats stretching it still... he always bring drama into my life. but its not like i can shush him out of my life as he is jennas dad. and even though he caused this to become supervised visitations with jenna she still has a right to see him and we know that and want to do anything we can so she can see him...

I think you did the right thing by telling Marcus. And I agree with having visitation at your house when Marcus is home. Better to be safe than sorry.

I think you were right by telling Marcus. You are partners in life now, and he has a right to know. I think I would make sure Marcus is there for visitations for a while.

Ditto to what the others said.

It's not wrong at all for you to tell Marcus, it's called being HONEST and TRUTHFUL, a quality a husband would be greatful to you for. What would be wrong is if you didn't tell him.

Sorry Aaron is being such a d&^%

yeah i think it was a good idea to tell Marcus he is your husband and you shouldn't keep anything from him. Definitely have them at your house when he is home you never know what he is capable of

Brad did this too with me. I ignore him. jus don't feed the fire by giving him the pleasure of your responce, wither you are saying no or giving him and explination. for immiture men such as thease it really is like dealing with a kid, no responce = no cry for attention. Plus you don't owe him a responce anyway. He may be your daughters dad but it by no means intials him the right to harass you. make visitation in public places and family affairs. he isn't gonna hit on you with his son, daughter, bea and marcus there. ( there wouldn't be a time to). my only thought on the aaron, marcus thing is i don't know how they are in each others presance and how fair it is to aaron is Jenna is attracted more to marcus and doesn' spend the time with her dad. ( mya did that a coupple times when lars and brad were in attendance at a funtion, she went for lars and her dad felt bad.

i see what you mean... jenna equally shares her attention she doesnt pick aron over marcus or marcus over aron. its quite amazing to witness:) its like she doesnt want feelings hurt

That's very good that she is that in tune.
Mya usually is too but she really saw lars as her father more ( still does even though she hasn't seen him in a month) and if they were in the same room Lars would deffinately get first afection. And she still talks about him and brad hates that.

Honestly I'd just ignore him. Have the visits in a place you're comfortable with and if it makes you feel better, than have Marcus there.

I agree.

I think have visitation wherever. Just have Marcus there.

You gotta do whatever keeps you safe.