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Calimama	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:31 AM
Ruby Member Group: Members Posts: 12,615 Member No.: 5,538 Joined: 17-October 06	My MIL is driving me NUTS! She calls all the time, first the house phone, then my cell, then DH's cell. This morning she called me at 6:42am! So I pickup god forbid it be an emergency.. no she was just "concerned" because we haven't been taking her calls. Well quit calling me a spoiled brat, and a S* and I'll start taking your calls more! I only answer occasionally so she can have a relationship with her granddaughter. Ahhhhh.. I wanna change my number. This post has been edited by Bellasmommy10** on Sep 21 2007, 07:31 AM

moped	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:32 AM
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Kaitlin'smom	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:36 AM
Graceland Group: Moderators Posts: 23,956 Member No.: 32 Joined: 5-March 03	I would kick anyone who calls me that early and it not be an emergency -------------------- Di ~ mommy to Kaitlin wife to David

A&A'smommy	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:40 AM
Praying For Spencer Group: Moderators Posts: 29,769 Member No.: 243 Joined: 11-August 03	Sorry girl what a PITA!!!! --------------------

lovemy2	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:50 AM
Gold Member Group: Validating Posts: 4,686 Member No.: 8,607 Joined: 9-February 07	They just don't get it do they - those MILs - mine is a real pain too - poor MIL who never sees her grandchildren - but ah ha - rarely makes the effort either - --------------------

3xsthefun	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 07:53 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 9,878 Member No.: 227 Joined: 25-July 03	-------------------- Tina wife to Rob (Sept. 25, 1999) mommy to Kaitlynn (11), Maegan (7) & Ryan (3.5)

luvmykids	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 08:01 AM
Diamond Member Group: Members Posts: 19,113 Member No.: 3,038 Joined: 3-January 06	Mine does the same thing

BAC'sMom	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 08:16 AM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 5,447 Member No.: 7,486 Joined: 13-January 07	-------------------- You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say will be misquoted, then used against you.

Cece00	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 08:17 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 2,836 Member No.: 3,100 Joined: 13-January 06	sounds sooooo much like my mil. we wouldnt talk to her for MONTHS one time so she actually ended up sending LETTERS and CARDS, I kid you not. And when she calls now, she calls the house, then both our cells. The last time it was for something SO stupid- a question about her headlight. -------------------- Crystal

Insanemomof3	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 10:29 AM
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QUOTE (Kaitlin'smom @ Sep 21 2007, 11:36 AM)

I would kick anyone who calls me that early and it not be an emergency

your not kidding

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Wife to Ed (Redchief)
Mom to Rick,John,Erin and Kaitlin

"Believe 100% in what you see believe 50% of what read and none of what you hear"

MoonMama	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 05:18 PM
Platinum Member Group: Members Posts: 6,537 Member No.: 4,927 Joined: 27-August 06	Honey you know my MIL is that same way so I REALLY feel for you.

Mommy2Isabella	Posted: Sep 21 2007, 06:23 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 2,917 Member No.: 3,075 Joined: 9-January 06	Thankfully MIL doesn't have my cell! But I feel for you!! -------------------- Jessica Wife to Salvador 12.23.05 Mommy to Isabella 8.8.06 & Isaia 1.2.08 & Ian 8.28.09

AlexsPajamaMama	Posted: Sep 22 2007, 03:36 AM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 4,938 Member No.: 3,473 Joined: 23-March 06	I'm sorry your mil is being a pain they are all programed that way I think I have the whole Everybody Loves Raymond thing going on over here, my inlaws live Next Door!! And her kids do no wrong...and I'm a spoiled b*tch..and she does not understand what a sahm is she thinks I just sit home all day everyday.... -------------------- Michelle~Sahm to Alex,Wife to Greg

Calimama

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QUOTE (AlexsPajamaMama @ Sep 22 2007, 03:36 AM)

I have the whole Everybody Loves Raymond thing going on over here,
my inlaws live Next Door!! yes:

You're stronger than I am.... I would move.

msoulz	Posted: Sep 23 2007, 12:07 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 3,102 Member No.: 2,158 Joined: 7-July 05	My MIL is one of those "well meaning" people. She is a bit on the kooky side but would never intentionally hurt someone. She does like to meddle when given the chance but here's the thing - DH stopped that a long time ago. She has been putting her nose into his brother and sisters' business forever but stays out of ours unless asked (so we get to hear them complain about it but they don't stop it). That is the ticket - DH must not allow mom to interfere because she won't listen to us. That can be tough for some guys but I really think we are more respected than his siblings for it. My point being that the child of the offending MIL/FIL, whatever, must be the one to set the boundaries and stick by them. I am sure there are guys out there saying the same things about our mothers (can you believe it??) and we have to set the boundaries with them too if necessary. -------------------- Mary :) a.k.a. Jake & Erin's mom

AlexsPajamaMama

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QUOTE (msoulz @ Sep 23 2007, 04:07 PM)

My point being that the child of the offending MIL/FIL, whatever, must be the one to set the boundaries and stick by them. I am sure there are guys out there saying the same things about our mothers (can you believe it??)

and we have to set the boundaries with them too if necessary.

You are 100% right. Consistantly telling her also, just like a child.

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Michelle~Sahm to Alex,Wife to Greg
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Kentuckychick	Posted: Sep 23 2007, 07:04 PM
Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 1,488 Member No.: 3,085 Joined: 10-January 06	6:45?? UGH! My aunt called me once before 8 and when I answered the phone she said in a chipper tone "Good Morning"... I believe my exact response was "What.The.H*ll" I would just lie and tell her the phone was flipped to silent conveniently every single time she called -------------------- ~Rachel~ Godmommy to;Connor (September '04) & Caydence (August '06)

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