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Why does it still hurt?| grapfruit |
Posted: Oct 8 2009, 02:21 PM
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Ok, so its been like 2 months since I had Isabelle, I've had my 6 week check up. Healed up good to go.
So why does it still hurt when we DTD?? I feel bad b/c he REALLY wants to do it. But it hurts, so I don't. We're using lube (as the dr suggested) but it still is sore. Like where they cut me. Does that typically go away??? --------------------  |
   
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| TrulyBlessed |
Posted: Oct 8 2009, 03:04 PM
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I have three kids and I have never hurt that long. If it doesn't ease up soon, you may want to ask the doctor.
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| My3LilMonkeys |
Posted: Oct 8 2009, 03:33 PM
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I had an episiotomy with Brooke and the scar took a bit longer than 6 weeks to heal to the point where it wasn't sore. It might have been 8 weeks but I think it was a bit less than that.
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| mom21kid2dogs |
Posted: Oct 8 2009, 04:53 PM
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 Parker, the handsome pound puppy! Group: Members Posts: 5,863 Member No.: 1,127 Joined: 30-December 04 |
Ditto. (well, except for the 3 kids thing~LOL). I was good to go after a month. I don't think, unless you had an extreme amount of stitches, you should still be in pain. -------------------- Cheryl, Olivia's mom
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| grapfruit |
Posted: Oct 9 2009, 08:07 PM
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I don't know how many stitches I had. It seemed like it took forever to stitch up though. I wish they wouldn't of done it. The dr that did it wasn't my dr, and Isabelle's head was out when she snipped me. I don't think she did that great of a job b/c she was literally coming out when she did it. I'm a little irritated that she didn't just let me go.
Well, we're right at the 8 week mark. So I don't know. I'll give it just a little longer and go back if it doesn't get better. Although it doesn't make me happy that nobody else had this problem...  -------------------- |
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| ~Roo'sMama~ |
Posted: Oct 9 2009, 08:54 PM
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 My two cuties :) Group: Members Posts: 7,394 Member No.: 788 Joined: 29-September 04 |
It took a long time for it to stop hurting for me too. Much longer than the six week mark. Just give yourself time to heal - and when you dtd tell your dh you need to go slowly, that helps.
 -------------------- Sara ~ Wife to Scott, Mommy to Andrew 6-12-05, Alison 2-20-07, and our angel in heaven 4-20-06
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| Insanemomof3 |
Posted: Oct 10 2009, 05:53 AM
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I had a lot of pain too. Longer than 6 weeks. It felt like I was DTD for the first time. Hated it. Just need more time to heal i think, and go slow and it will eventually go back to normal. Did for me anyway.
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| youngmomofone |
Posted: Oct 11 2009, 10:14 AM
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I never had a baby vag,had a c/s and it still took months for me hooha not to hurt during sex. Try to explain that one
 . It was about 3.5-4 months before it was comfortable again. -------------------- Mom to: CJ 7.03, Alexis 10.09, Taylin 5.11, and Emma and Issac 4.12.
Expecting our last baby Liam Jacob in April 2013.  |
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| kimberley |
Posted: Oct 11 2009, 12:18 PM
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i had this problem after Jade. too many stitches! sorry if this is TMI but use lotsa lube and go slow. it will stretch in time. sorry.
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| grapfruit |
Posted: Oct 12 2009, 07:57 AM
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Gold Member Group: Members Posts: 4,117 Member No.: 5,476 Joined: 9-October 06 |
Ok, well I feel a little better now. I feel bad, b/c I really don't want to DTD (b/c it hurts!) and he is feeling a little shunned
I think if we had more time to "get ready" it'd help too  -------------------- |
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| moped |
Posted: Oct 12 2009, 09:18 AM
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I think most men feel "shunned" after 8 weeks......... It will get better I am sure.....but get it checked out in a few weeks if it isn't better --------------------  |
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| DVFlyer |
Posted: Oct 12 2009, 10:01 AM
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Shunned? Tell him to get over it.... There are other ways he can get some action.
-------------------- Convincing the world that the only way to solve the ongoing issues while raising children is PERSISTENCE. You have to keep trying things and not give up........ they eventually go away on their own. ;-)
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| ~Roo'sMama~ |
Posted: Oct 12 2009, 07:38 PM
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My two cuties :) Group: Members Posts: 7,394 Member No.: 788 Joined: 29-September 04 |
Lol, we didn't even TRY until 8 weeks after Andrew was born! -------------------- Sara ~ Wife to Scott, Mommy to Andrew 6-12-05, Alison 2-20-07, and our angel in heaven 4-20-06
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