Do you do anything that irritates your DW/DH/SO?, and do it anyways?

DH hates that I wear his clothes, but I do it because they are so comfy. (Besides I am the one that does most of the laundry!)

I wear his boxers around the house sometimes (only the cute ones with designs), and I used to wear his sweats all the time when I was PG. I wear his socks when I run out of mine... for some reason he has tons of socks (like 3 drawers full). And, sometimes I sleep in his t-shirts.

I guess I should be more respectful of his wishes.

I stay up too late (so she tells me)
I make noise when I eat (still don't know after 21 years what exactly she means by that)
I pick on her driving (everyone here calls her the queen of road rage)
I don't take her seriously (heck I don't take me seriously most of the time)
I zone... you know what I mean; my attention gets drawn to something and she can't break down the wall
I do this thing with my nose... she HATES it.... she'll have to tell you more about it because I just don't think I could do it justice.

Geez... all that and she still loves me. Sometimes these look yourself in the mirror questions suck!

Ed... you always crack me up!

hmm where should the list start?? lol

not filling the water or milk pitcher
being late for everything
nattering at him
hogging the bed (though Jade does this more than i do)
being on the phone for hours
being grumpy in the morning (he said grumpy doesn't begin to describe it)
saying i am fat
saying i will come to bed in a minute then fall asleep on the couch


i am sure there are a million more, i just can't think of them all.

welll I'm not really sure... he hardly EVER gets mad at me oohhh heres one...
when I get mad at don't tell him why I'm mad....because he should KNOW lol
and When I hit him when I get mad.... oops I don't hurt him it just makes him mad and when I yell at him.

LOL Dee Dee dh doesn't even notice when I wear his clothes which is ALL the time in fact his clothes aren't even really his anymore one day I needed a shirt so i asked him to bring me (who knows why ) one and he brought me his white button up shirt he thought it was SOOO sexy even though I'm fat

Sounds as though he was waiting for the opportunity to see you in that white shirt.

This reminds me of another. I always fall asleep during movies and this irritates DH so badly. He will even ask me if I am awake and I will say "yes" in my half-asleep state just before I drift off into la la land.

Jason is usually nice to me but some things do wind him up! He hates my driving, he says i am crazed behind a wheel and drive too fast! Fool. He also gets mad when I wear his clothes, well they shouldn't be so damn comfy! Apart from that, i do't know . . . I'll have to ask him! xx

1 He hates when I wear his teeshirts and sweatshirts
2 He dislikes my cussing( I drop the F bomb a lot)
3 He dislikes my driving( But I never got a ticket or in an accident like someone I know)
4 He dislikes my lil fat roll on my stomach but he likes to play with it
5 He HATES when I judge poeople before I get to know them BUT I'm 95% always right(everyone here is safe I like you all a lot)
6 Hmm ok here it goes we will be ready for sex and I will fall asleep before he gets to the bedroom 1/2 hour later so that is a 50/50 thing he just has to move faster LOL
7 Now he told everyone about his nose thing ok here it goes insted of using a tissue or a hankie to blow it he shoots snot rockets out in public not in a building but in the parking lots or when he walks out of a store and he dont care who is there that is so damn gross
But I still love him snot rockets and all.

This post has been edited by gr33n3y3z on Nov 2 2004, 02:11 PM

I don't do anything to irritate him on purpose.

He irritates me by doing the following:

*Turning into the biggest baby the second he gets sick

*The way he falls asleep and snores in the recliner while I'm up til 10:30 working on those stupod cables

*The way he can leave with his friends for the whole day, but it's such a PITA if I want to go anywhere, so I don't bother anymore.

*When he asks me my opinion about something, but is actually telling me he wants it done his way (that's a BIG one! GRRRRR!!!)

*When I ask him what he wants for supper and hates what I make


There's more I'm sure.

Ohh Good Grief..

I don't do the laundry as often as he thinks I should..even though I don't do his laundry..only mine and the kids...he does his own..so I don't know why this bothers him.

I have a bad habit of throwing my hair towel in the bathroom floor and leaving it..which makes him insane!!!!!!!!!

OMG on the snot rockets!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
I'm sitting here at my desk at work laughing so freaking hard I can't even breathe, everyone thinks I'm insane!!!! I totally didn't see that coming..

Lisa..as for the F bomb..I'm the sameway! I tend to say freaking a lot when I'm places I should be behaving! LOL But man alives..sometimes that word just doesn't substitute well for the real deal!

I always forget to empty the lint trap in the dryer. Drives dh crazy.

Oh yes, the snot rockets! DH calls them booger bombs. Makes me want to hurl everytime he does that!

MY husband hates that I read all the time and ignore him. He says reading is a one sided thing. He hates it b/c he can't enjoy it with me.

He hates that always iron my clothes, and he wears his dryer fluffed.
He hates that I always leave the car or truck on E...which ever he is driving he will have to put gas in it....this becomes a problem b/c we live on 7 miles dirt road.

He hates that I never make the Bed!!!

Wow, most of the things you said......we you writing this for all men?

Let's see what would annoy my husband about me.....

1. He is definitely annoyed that I always have to be right and my way is always the right way to do things.

2. That I'm a pig. I leave things everywhere throughout the house...but I'm the one who always eventually cleans it up. I just don't feel like putting things away immediately.

3. That I'll ask him what's for dinner when I call knowing that I have in my mind already what I want but I won't tell him

4. That I drive like a race car driver (except when Kylie is in the car). He says my car should be equipped with an on/off switch and he's very happy that the van has a "sh-- strap" as he calls it.

5. That I can never let anything die. I could bring up crap he did 10 years ago in an argument just because.

Okay I'm sure if my Dh responded he'd think of a bazillion more...but he really seriously must think I'm perfect...because I AM!

There are times when I think everything I do irritates DH and certainly there are times when everything he does irritates me.

He doesn't like the way I drive
He doesn't like the way I keep a messy house
It irritates him when I go to bed with clothes on
When I fall asleep in a movie
That I don't do dishes before going to bed. (I leave them in the sink to soak)
The laundry is never caught up
When I cook chicken...he hates chicken
If I'm on the computer when he is home...HE HATES THIS!!
If I am on the phone when he is home

The funny thing about the last two is that he can sit in there and flip channels on the TV and ignore me all night. I guess I am supposed to sit there and stare at him. I HATE THE SHOWS HE WATCHES!! (In the Heat of the Night)

He loves when I wear his old dress shirts, tho. I can't much fit into anything of his. He is 6'3" and weighs two times what I weigh.

he hates when I

say I am fat

say I don't care where we have dinner (even though I really want to go someplace specific)

make us late for something

i nag! he hates it!
i pick at his food he gets so mad
cause hewould offer to make it for me
but i would be like no im fine then pick
off is plate hehe ..

OMG I think all men do the booger thing redchief. My fiance will just blow snot right out of his nose onto the ground and I want to cringe everytime he does it YUCK!!!

I don't clean enough
I don't cook enough ( I have a busy schedule)
When I do cook it is always something with hamburger in it
I burp loud in front of most people
That I think I am always right (because I am )
That I never put gas in my car (I make him do it, it's too expensive anymore, LOL)
That I hardly ever pay for anything when we go anywhere, I am always broke

Hmm...that is all I can think of at this moment, I'm sure I'll be editing this post to add more as I think of them!!!

I've never been able to do the booger blow thing.

It always ended up on my shirt as a kid, so I just gave it up.

While this sounds pretty lame, I'm sure, Lisa and I don't have many things that drive the other crazy!!! I'm a lucky man, for sure...

But....here goes anyway.

She gets annoyed:

That I find the best place to leave my keys (and wallet, and remote, and cups and etc etc) is the hardest place to find them the next morning...

That I find the foot of the bed the best place to leave my just worn but not dirty clothes...

That, being a Libra, I always take both sides of every issue (guess that's why I liked Kerry so much...God I can't believe I just propogated the Flip Flop Propoganda )

That I don't like to drive when she's in the car (because she is nearly constantly telling me how I should be driving, so it's just better for her to have the wheel)...

That I snore! (what the heck is a guy to do?)...

That I can fall asleep even in an earthquake (this one comes in real handy with the new baby around)...


I'm sure she could add on a bunch to this list....

Hubby doesn't like it when I

don't pick up after myself
nag at him
not answering his questions
changing my mind
not picking up my boy's toys at the end of the night
not doing laundry regularly (I wait tell the last moment to do it. I DISLIKE laundry)

That's all i can think of right now

mine hates it when I have nothing Nice/good to say about ANYONE in his family (VERY LONG STORY)