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Kirstenmumof3 |
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A&A'smommy |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 05:20 PM
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luvmykids |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 05:25 PM
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![]() ![]() eta: Am I understanding correctly that she was at someone elses house when all this happened? Not that it makes a difference, just wasn't sure. This post has been edited by luvmykids on Aug 29 2007, 05:26 PM |
kimberley |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 06:32 PM
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oh no! i am sorry hon. counselling is the best idea right now. p&pt your way. keep us posted.
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Kirstenmumof3 |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 06:55 PM
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No, she was at our house using the computer to MSN her friends. My friends daughter and friend realized that they needed to do something drastic this time and called the police from there house. I wonder if the police will actually show up? I wonder if maybe I should call them and ask them to come here and talk to her. I wonder if any of this will make any difference at all. ![]() -------------------- ![]() |
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luvmykids |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 07:20 PM
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I don't know either, on one hand, hearing from the cops about the dangers of who she may be talking to might give her a healthy scare, and hearing that she could get in trouble for lying online might help too. The flip side is, it sounds drastic and scary and it would be hard to judge how well she might handle that. I'm sorry this is going on ![]() ![]() |
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redchief |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 07:21 PM
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Wow. Why do you think she's acting out so?
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Calimama |
Posted: Aug 29 2007, 09:58 PM
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You are NOT a horrible parent. I would take the computer away all together. I agree that letting the cops come talk to her might be a bit drastic but if that's what it takes then it might be worth it. I'm sorry you are going through this, I hope things start looking up soon hun.
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grapfruit |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 06:51 AM
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![]() ![]() Your family is/has been going through some heavy stuff. I think it's not surprising she's acting out, but it's still sad. You are NOT a bad parent. Don't forget that. We ALL know you love your children and worry about them a ton! Nobody thinks any different! ![]() Personally I do not think it's drastic to have the police come to the house to talk to her. I think that's part of their job. And I'm sure some of them would agree with that. I'm SURE they would MUCH rather come and talk to her BEFORE something happens. When I was 17 I came home one morning (like 3am) to a sheriff sitting at my kitchen table waiting for me...needless to say I never missed curfew again. -------------------- ![]() |
Kirstenmumof3 |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 06:55 AM
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DH and I and my friend think she is doing this to get attention. That she is jealous of Spencer and Claudia. But this isn't the case, I do a lot of one on one things with her. Taking her out for lunch, going shopping, watching a movie with her when the other kids are in bed. Both of her bestfriends are away right now, so she's bored. But then again, unless DH and I planned things for her, she never leaves the house. -------------------- ![]() |
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grapfruit |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 07:00 AM
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I know it's more work for you guys, but have you thought about putting her in dance or a club or something. Something 'just for her' if you KWIM?
I know you feel like you spend lots of time w/her, but sometimes they gloss over those dinners and stuff. What does she like to do (besides play on the computer). Can you put her in an art class or something? Not that I'd EVER claim to be a psychologist or something like that. But maybe what she needs is something to be proud of, a positive way to channel her energy (and relieve her bordom). That's why I thought maybe an art class. You may check into ceramic classes in your area. I know from experience, working w/raw clay is hard work! But also soothing and rewarding, and seeing your finished creation is like nothing else...Just a thought -------------------- ![]() |
luvmykids |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 07:20 AM
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We did this for Kylie...she just started gymnastics and it has made a HUGE difference in the two weeks she's been going. |
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Posted: Aug 30 2007, 07:29 AM
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Please don't take this personally, but I think you're on a path of revelation if we keep going. I didn't ask why people thought she was doing this... I asked why you thought she was doing this. I think if you look into it hard enough, you'll be able to come up with a plan of action and support for yourselves and Emily. -------------------- Ed is husband to Lisa (since 1983) Dad to Ricky, John, Erin and Kaitlin The Administrators of the Parenting Club take trolls and violators of the Terms of Service Agreement seriously. Please report any suspicions to the Moderators. Report a post using the "report" button in the upper right corner of the offending post. |
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lisar |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 08:29 AM
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You are NOT a bad parent by any means.
How old is she again? Sorry I cant remember. I hope all goes well and the police may put a scare on her and help her though. |
Kirstenmumof3 |
Posted: Aug 30 2007, 07:01 PM
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Posted: Aug 31 2007, 06:28 AM
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