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> Why does it still hurt?
grapfruit
Posted: Oct 8 2009, 02:21 PM
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Ok, so its been like 2 months since I had Isabelle, I've had my 6 week check up. Healed up good to go.

So why does it still hurt when we DTD?? I feel bad b/c he REALLY wants to do it. But it hurts, so I don't. We're using lube (as the dr suggested) but it still is sore. Like where they cut me. Does that typically go away???


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Posted: Oct 8 2009, 03:04 PM
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I have three kids and I have never hurt that long. If it doesn't ease up soon, you may want to ask the doctor.
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Posted: Oct 8 2009, 03:33 PM
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I had an episiotomy with Brooke and the scar took a bit longer than 6 weeks to heal to the point where it wasn't sore. It might have been 8 weeks but I think it was a bit less than that.
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Posted: Oct 8 2009, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE (TrulyBlessed @ Oct 8 2009, 06:04 PM)
I have three kids and I have never hurt that long. If it doesn't ease up soon, you may want to ask the doctor.

Ditto. (well, except for the 3 kids thing~LOL). I was good to go after a month. I don't think, unless you had an extreme amount of stitches, you should still be in pain.


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Posted: Oct 9 2009, 08:07 PM
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I don't know how many stitches I had. It seemed like it took forever to stitch up though. I wish they wouldn't of done it. The dr that did it wasn't my dr, and Isabelle's head was out when she snipped me. I don't think she did that great of a job b/c she was literally coming out when she did it. I'm a little irritated that she didn't just let me go.

Well, we're right at the 8 week mark. So I don't know. I'll give it just a little longer and go back if it doesn't get better.

Although it doesn't make me happy that nobody else had this problem... sleep.gif


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Posted: Oct 9 2009, 08:54 PM
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It took a long time for it to stop hurting for me too. Much longer than the six week mark. Just give yourself time to heal - and when you dtd tell your dh you need to go slowly, that helps. hug.gif


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Posted: Oct 10 2009, 05:53 AM
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I had a lot of pain too. Longer than 6 weeks. It felt like I was DTD for the first time. Hated it. Just need more time to heal i think, and go slow and it will eventually go back to normal. Did for me anyway. hug.gif


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Posted: Oct 11 2009, 10:14 AM
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I never had a baby vag,had a c/s and it still took months for me hooha not to hurt during sex. Try to explain that one wacko.gif . It was about 3.5-4 months before it was comfortable again.


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Posted: Oct 11 2009, 12:18 PM
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i had this problem after Jade. too many stitches! sorry if this is TMI but use lotsa lube and go slow. it will stretch in time. sorry. hug.gif


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Posted: Oct 12 2009, 07:57 AM
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Ok, well I feel a little better now. I feel bad, b/c I really don't want to DTD (b/c it hurts!) and he is feeling a little shunned sleep.gif

I think if we had more time to "get ready" it'd help too rolleyes.gif


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Posted: Oct 12 2009, 09:18 AM
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QUOTE (grapfruit @ Oct 12 2009, 10:57 AM)
Ok, well I feel a little better now. I feel bad, b/c I really don't want to DTD (b/c it hurts!) and he is feeling a little shunned sleep.gif

I think if we had more time to "get ready" it'd help too rolleyes.gif

I think most men feel "shunned" after 8 weeks.........

It will get better I am sure.....but get it checked out in a few weeks if it isn't better


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Posted: Oct 12 2009, 10:01 AM
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Shunned? Tell him to get over it.... There are other ways he can get some action.


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Posted: Oct 12 2009, 07:38 PM
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QUOTE (grapfruit @ Oct 12 2009, 10:57 AM)
Ok, well I feel a little better now. I feel bad, b/c I really don't want to DTD (b/c it hurts!) and he is feeling a little shunned sleep.gif

I think if we had more time to "get ready" it'd help too rolleyes.gif

Lol, we didn't even TRY until 8 weeks after Andrew was born!


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