one chapter is closed, advice please

[luvbug00]

So jon and i had to end things. He really needs to work on himself and we agreed for right now this is best. needless to say i'm sad about it. He was my favorite friend and lover of my recent life.
But while this transpired I revisited my first love by accidently finding some of his photos. I belive i was on here when that relationship traspired. He and I seperated becuase it was at a time where brad and i were at great odds and constantly arguing. His name is chris and he was perfection. I have loved him all this time but had felt that i had my chance there and it didnt work. Well I wrote him a year or so ago and that conversation just got out of control. we both confessed so much and didnt take the proper time to absorb it all. especially me. This was when i found out why he had left. We met one night for hot coco, and the chemistry was soo intense.
so like i said after that foul ball of a conversation I kinda just left him alone..But tonight after what happened with jon I realized that I'm not ok with how we left things. which was sudden because we were both in these random relationships and being together as "friends" was too much at the time.
So tonight i gathered my whitts and wrote him to extend that hand of friendship. I kinda figure at this point if things are ment to be with anyone they will just be. But I miss him and would rather try and be friends if anything.
so do you think this was a stuiped idea??

[Nina J]

I don't think it was a stupid idea. Life had a funny way of working things out in it's own time. Friends or more, you and Chris sound like you have the potential for a good relationship.

Whatever is meant to happen will happen. I know when I was younger I would avoid doing things, thinking 'That's stupid', or something. It is great you have taken the chance, understand your own feelings and are confident to express yourself.

I hope things go well, let us know

[DVFlyer]

Maybe I missed something but you said the chemistry was so intense but you only want to be friends? Sounds like you're hoping for more?

[luvbug00]

The chemistry is intense but if he is in a relationship I'm not even gonna go there with him. I respect whoever he dates. BUT if he is not and we hang out and end up dating again and who know what else..I'm SOOOOOOO own for it!
He did write me back and it seems he is single and was waiting for me to write him because he was afraid to write me. He wants to meet up, i'm just thrilled i get to talk to him. More then that is just icing on the cake!

[DVFlyer]

Always nice to reignite old flames.