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> I think about them, still
Danalana
Posted: May 7 2008, 11:47 AM
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Even though both my losses were early, they were still losses bawling.gif I think about them sometimes, but then I look at my Kade and I just smile...he was the one meant to be in my arms wub.gif It's just hard, imagining what they would look like and how their personalites would have been. I know I will see my little ones some day, though, and I can't wait for that!


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Posted: May 7 2008, 11:48 AM
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Posted: May 7 2008, 01:24 PM
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I think we'll always think about the babies we've lost and try to imagine what they'd be like. I have a neice who is the same age my baby would have been and whenever my sister is telling me about her I think - my baby would be doing that now too.

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Danalana
Posted: May 7 2008, 02:11 PM
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I just realized the second loss was a year ago, the 19th of this month. We got pregnant with Kade the very next cycle!


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Posted: May 7 2008, 02:14 PM
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I hear you - mine were also early but not forgotten. hug.gif


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Posted: May 7 2008, 03:18 PM
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Posted: May 7 2008, 05:52 PM
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I found I thought about my losses even MORE after I finally had a baby to hold because,,,,,,,,,,,after you have a baby you totally realize what you loss. KWIM ? That's why this last loss was the hardest for me. My first two losses were before Sam and Abby and could only 'imagine' what I was missing but this last loss was after Sam and Abby and it just crushed my soul because I now KNOW what a true blessing a child is.

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Posted: May 7 2008, 06:17 PM
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Posted: May 7 2008, 08:34 PM
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QUOTE (Sam & Abby's Mom @ May 7 2008, 05:52 PM)
I found I thought about my losses even MORE after I finally had a baby to hold because,,,,,,,,,,,after you have a baby you totally realize what you loss. KWIM ? That's why this last loss was the hardest for me. My first two losses were before Sam and Abby and could only 'imagine' what I was missing but this last loss was after Sam and Abby and it just crushed my soul because I now KNOW what a true blessing a child is.

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Posted: May 8 2008, 04:39 AM
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I'm so sorry dada, I know exactly what you mean. Zander was suppossed to be a twin, I lost one early on( 10 - 12 weeks I think) and I still sit back and look at him some days and wonder.............


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Posted: May 8 2008, 05:21 AM
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