We've said that we don't want to make it a battle and that we want to be friends, but the next 6 months will definetly be tough with me being here and then having to go back "home"
I'm absolutely heartbroken right now.
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| Posted by: CantWait Apr 3 2008, 01:19 PM |
| After 13 years together, 7 years being married.....he has told me that he can't get over things from the past, and I'm tired of always "trying to make it work". We've said that we don't want to make it a battle and that we want to be friends, but the next 6 months will definetly be tough with me being here and then having to go back "home" I'm absolutely heartbroken right now. |
| Posted by: Our Lil' Family Apr 3 2008, 01:21 PM |
Oh Marie, I'm so sorry. This has got to come at the absolute worst time for you. I'll keep you in my prayers!  |
| Posted by: luvmykids Apr 3 2008, 01:21 PM |
| Oh Marie, I'm so sorry |
| Posted by: coasterqueen Apr 3 2008, 01:22 PM |
| I am so sorry hon. |
| Posted by: kimberley Apr 3 2008, 01:23 PM |
| omg Marie, i am so sorry. i thought things were starting to look up for you two. if you need to talk, i am here. |
| Posted by: mommy~to~a~bunch Apr 3 2008, 01:26 PM |
| I am so sorry. |
| Posted by: CantWait Apr 3 2008, 01:27 PM | ||
We were (or so I thought) till about 3 weeks before I left. He has been struggling with this for quite some time. And we had an argument over e-mail a couple weeks back that really made me think it I wanted to go through all of it over again, and really I don't, I don't want to start from the beginning again. |
| Posted by: Maddie&EthansMom Apr 3 2008, 01:30 PM |
| Oh hun I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how difficult things are for you right now, having to deal with this all so far from home. It just doesn't seem fair. If you need to talk, I'm here. |
| Posted by: kimberley Apr 3 2008, 01:31 PM |
| i can understand that. stay strong. |
| Posted by: mckayleesmom Apr 3 2008, 01:32 PM |
| sorry sweetie.....What a bad time for this to all be happening while your away. |
| Posted by: Crystalina Apr 3 2008, 01:33 PM |
| Oh Marie. I'm so sorry. http://www.freesmileys.org My thoughts are with you. I know it has to be hard for you. |
| Posted by: BAC'sMom Apr 3 2008, 01:44 PM |
| I'm so sorry Marie |
| Posted by: msoulz Apr 3 2008, 02:01 PM |
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| Posted by: Teesa®© Apr 3 2008, 02:01 PM |
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| Posted by: mysweetpeasWil&Wes Apr 3 2008, 02:05 PM |
| I'm so sorry Marie. |
| Posted by: sparkys2boys Apr 3 2008, 02:06 PM |
| Oh Marie hun I am so sorry. If you need to talk, just let me know ok. Over seas or not we can hook up on the phone and talk ok. |
| Posted by: boyohboyohboy Apr 3 2008, 02:11 PM |
| marie, i am so sorry.. |
| Posted by: lovemy2 Apr 3 2008, 02:13 PM |
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| Posted by: Calimama Apr 3 2008, 02:17 PM |
| I'm so sorry. |
| Posted by: MommyToAshley Apr 3 2008, 02:28 PM |
| I'm so sorry Marie. And, I think it is quite cowardly of him to dump this on you while you are away from home. If he has been struggling with it for a while, he could have waited until you got home to bring all this up and have a conversation face to face. Sorry to ramble on like that but it makes me mad that he hurt you. |
| Posted by: moped Apr 3 2008, 02:38 PM |
| What about the boys? |
| Posted by: amynicole21 Apr 3 2008, 02:39 PM |
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| Posted by: My3LilMonkeys Apr 3 2008, 02:42 PM |
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| Posted by: gr33n3y3z Apr 3 2008, 02:47 PM |
| so sorry hun |
| Posted by: Mommy2BAK Apr 3 2008, 03:39 PM |
| Maire, I am so sorry to hear this, you will be in my thoughts. I know that you will make the best from this and come out a much stronger person. I am also here if you ever need to talk, or just vent. I hope it didn't completely ruin your trip, you deserve to enjoy yourself. |
| Posted by: :.Mrs_Mommy.: Apr 3 2008, 03:41 PM |
| I am so sorry. |
| Posted by: Boys r us Apr 3 2008, 03:41 PM |
| Marie, I'm so sorry! I agree with Dee Dee that I can't believe he did this while you were away. It's not like it's going to change anything right now..he doesn't have to see you everyday..he should have just left well enough alone and waited until you guys could sit down face to face..it's so easy to say something you *might* not mean over email! You are in my thoughts, you deserve to be happy Marie, you're a wonderful person and who knows, maybe this will all end up being in your best interest in the long run! Lots of love and thoughts coming your way!!! |
| Posted by: Sam & Abby's Mom Apr 3 2008, 03:48 PM |
| I'm so sorry. Keep the Faith, as hard as it may seem. |
| Posted by: Insanemomof3 Apr 3 2008, 04:17 PM |
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| Posted by: wcs40110 Apr 3 2008, 04:32 PM |
| Were all here for you. |
| Posted by: AlexsPajamaMama Apr 3 2008, 04:37 PM |
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| Posted by: redchief Apr 3 2008, 05:38 PM |
| Marie, I feel for you for what you must be going through. I also know that you're tough and you'll be OK, but that doesn't make it any easier to deal with. All I have to offer are . I agree with the others that Ron could have had the fortitude to do this at a more opportune time. |
| Posted by: A&A'smommy Apr 3 2008, 05:48 PM |
| Marie I'm SOOO sorry!!!! My heart is breaking for you if you need anything you can always talk to me!!! |
| Posted by: Hillbilly Housewife Apr 3 2008, 05:58 PM |
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| Posted by: PrairieMom Apr 3 2008, 06:14 PM |
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| Posted by: HuskerMom Apr 3 2008, 07:47 PM |
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| Posted by: MomToJade&Jordan Apr 3 2008, 09:46 PM |
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| Posted by: CantWait Apr 3 2008, 10:57 PM | ||
Dee Dee, Ed, honestly I'm really glad he told me now instead of waiting until I got home. I'm far from mad at him. It's no one's fault as far as I'm concerned, we're just so different, and I still think he's a great guy. It was very mutual, and I'm the one that said that if he couldn't get over his demons so to speak and if us argue, then it would be best, and it really is. I don't know what's going to happen when it comes to the boys, I really don't. Living in New Brunswick isn't an option for me, but this is all stuff we're going to have to discuss when I get back in September. I really don't want to pull Robbie out of his last year of middle school so we'll have to see what happens. |
| Posted by: Kirstenmumof3 Apr 4 2008, 03:08 AM |
| I'm so sorry to hear this! My thoughts and prayers are with you! |
| Posted by: bawoodsmall Apr 4 2008, 03:59 AM |
| I am so sorry. I hope you can stay nice to one another. |
| Posted by: Bamamom Apr 4 2008, 06:06 AM |
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| Posted by: 3xsthefun Apr 4 2008, 07:37 AM |
| I'm so sorry Marie. |
| Posted by: jcc64 Apr 4 2008, 07:49 AM |
| Oh Marie, I'm so very sorry! Ita with Nichole that in the long run, you may come to see this as a blessing, but in the short term, it's gonna be a real struggle. Many to you, lean on us here as much as you need to. |
| Posted by: My2Beauties Apr 15 2008, 11:15 AM |
| I"m sorry I am just now seeing this post. Many to you hon. |
| Posted by: Kirstenmumof3 Apr 15 2008, 04:00 PM |
| I'm sorry you are going through this! My thoughts are with you and we will all be here for you if you need us! |
| Posted by: lisar Apr 16 2008, 06:15 AM |
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