Lemmie preface this next part by saying that i am severly unreligous. I respect others religous beliefs. and as long as they arnt pushed on me im gravy with whatever.
This being said. D has been blaitently unreligous for years..like for forever. Since she is half jewish and half christian she has never choosen to lay claim to any real realigon. But her husband dan has been a christian man. Goes to church on sunday and says prayer at dinner. I've never had any problem with him and he has never overstepped his bounds with me. we have mutual respect.
now that they are married it's church every sunday and yada yada... But she has become very overstepping with her "egerness" to share every little thing she does in church, emails me surmons and tried every tactic in the book to drag me there. NOT COOL.
That is berrier number one.
Number two is the goes back to this bossy, stuck up trait of hers.
There is a reson I dont have big birthday parties or go out very much with my friends and this is exactly why. D has critisized and picked to pieces of all my friends. My friend who is a single mother as well is "below me". my 45 year old single girlfriend is "needy and needs to get her act together". Now both of these friend have bust their tushies to get to where they are. do not have the same family support as D and I are lucky to have. Everytime she is arround at them she ignores them compleately. Every one of my friends she treats like this.
She treats the men in my life alot worse. She is a flat out witch to them. Took her a year to be nice to lars. even then.. It's just getting really old and she hates Jon because he finally stood up to her. she isnt talking to me now because of that one.
I have mentioned griped about her here before. I'm just trying to decide if this is all really worth it anymore. The only reason we really talk at this point is because her mom and my mom are best friends. I've tried to be supportive for her, even threw her really hard moments and threw people she has hung out with and situations i wasnt fond of. I just feel I can understand an addition to a drug or that kind of issue where she needs to draw a line to protect me. But this is crazy.
what would you do?
