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| Posted by: Danalana May 31 2010, 09:12 PM |
| For our first 3 losses, I knew the dates my babies went to Heaven. For the last 3, I lost track. I honestly don't know. I feel SO horrible, but I loved them just the same as the others I wonder if this is normal. |
| Posted by: ~Roo'sMama~ May 31 2010, 09:32 PM |
 Don't feel bad, Dana! It's hard to remember all those dates sometimes, and not remembering the exact date doesn't have anything to do with how much you loved those babies. |
| Posted by: amymom Jun 1 2010, 02:18 AM | ||
I agree |
| Posted by: CantWait Jun 1 2010, 02:39 AM |
| Oh honey don't feel bad. Even after only 3 losses I'm forgetting the dates by heart that I lost them or they would be here. Heck I forget Robbie and Anthony's birthday sometimes (temporarily and only for a split second mind you) It's totally normal, and doesn't mean you don't love them any less. |
| Posted by: PrairieMom Jun 1 2010, 02:45 AM |
| The dates dont matter, you hold them in your heart. I actually forgot that yesterday was Al's birthday until I saw a friend post about her daughters birthday on FB and remembered that they share a birhtday.  You have a lot on your plate. You should be happy you remember to feed everyone.  |
| Posted by: Danalana Jun 1 2010, 05:39 AM | ||
Shoot! I KNEW I was forgetting something!  |
| Posted by: my2monkeyboys Jun 1 2010, 08:46 AM |
| I agree, Dana. No need to feel bad about it in the least. Dates mean nothing, memories and love mean everything. |
| Posted by: MoonMama Jun 1 2010, 09:00 AM |
| I agree with the others. |
| Posted by: akaishuu Jun 12 2010, 07:06 AM |
| Dont feel bad! I think I know your thinking! |
| Posted by: A&A'smommy Jun 12 2010, 07:13 AM |
| I'm just seeing this!!! |
| Posted by: msoulz Jun 12 2010, 01:06 PM | ||
Ditto!! |