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Posted by: Ana53 Dec 2 2008, 11:42 PM
Seems like I've gone from being completely emotionless about my daughters death from having mixed emotions. Lately everytime I think about her passing I'm almost filled with rage that she took her own life. I think its so selfish of her to only think of her feelings and not everyone elses and what we have to go through after her death. Im sure she stopped to think about how we'd all feel about her taking her own life but she went ahead and did it any way. But then again at the same time I feel so terrible that she was in so much pain that she thought suicide was the only way to go. We could have helped her with all her problems. We would have made it work out. Am I wrong to be mad at her for taking her own life?

Posted by: ZandersMama Dec 3 2008, 04:18 AM
No, I dont think u are wrong, everyone goes through differant stages of grief. Healing takes time mama. hug.gif

Posted by: A&A'smommy Dec 3 2008, 07:16 AM
hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif NO I don't think you are wrong!!!!! I agree healing takes time and you go through different stages of grief... my heart is literally breaking for you!! hug.gif hug.gif

Posted by: lisar Dec 3 2008, 07:18 AM
No I do not think you are wrong at all. It just takes ALOT of time to grieve about something like that. You cant ponder on the what ifs. hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif

Posted by: 3xsthefun Dec 3 2008, 08:03 AM
No I don't think you are wrong. hug.gif

Posted by: CantWait Dec 3 2008, 08:15 AM
What you're going though is part of the process, it shows that at least you feel something about it and start to heal and move on. hug.gif hug.gif

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