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Posted by: ~Roo'sMama~ Jun 5 2006, 08:00 AM

The past couple weeks I have had a feeling that the baby we lost was a girl. I will never know for sure but every time I think of the baby I think of it as a "her", and I always picture a little blond haired girl.

It may be just because I would really like a girl, but when I was pg I didn't have a preference for what this baby would be - I wanted a boy just as much as I wanted a girl. I guess I'll know for sure when I get to Heaven someday but until then I think I'll always think of her as my little girl.

It has been a little hard lately ~ we've been painting the upstairs bedrooms, but we decided to leave the nursery walls unpainted so that we can paint it either blue or pink for the next baby when the time comes... it was my idea to leave it that way but it hurts to see the bare walls in there.

I should have been 15 weeks by now and so close to finding out what it was and getting the nursery ready.

Posted by: boyohboyohboy Jun 5 2006, 08:02 AM

hugs and prayers to you and your family...

Posted by: BAC'sMom Jun 5 2006, 08:02 AM

Posted by: 5littleladies Jun 5 2006, 08:08 AM

I'm sure Benjamin and your little girl are the best of friends in heaven. Can't you just picture how cute they are running around hand in hand? I can't wait to see them.

I'm sorry you are having a difficult time.

I'm here if you need anything. If you want to prime the nursery so at least it isn't yucky sheetrock let me know and I'll come help.

Posted by: AlexsPajamaMama Jun 5 2006, 08:40 AM

Posted by: luvmykids Jun 5 2006, 07:34 PM

I'm sorry.

Posted by: CantWait Jun 5 2006, 09:38 PM

Posted by: ashtonsmama Jun 5 2006, 09:42 PM

Sara-if only I could ease your pain, sweetie. I'm so sorry you're having to go through the loss of your little angel. We were very close together in our pregnancies, I'm almost 15 weeks now. If only I could give you this baby...

It seems so unfair.

Posted by: Halo42101 Jun 9 2006, 05:46 AM

Perhaps it's mother's instinct that you feel your baby in Heaven is a girl. Though everyone kept saying they thought our baby was a girl, I believed in my own heart it was a boy. Now I referr to our angel baby as a "he or a him." God bless our angel babies.

Posted by: Ashlynn's Mommy Jun 9 2006, 07:05 AM