My doctor said that what I passed on thursday was the baby... I guess I already knew that. My heart is aching. I feel empty and defeated.
| Printable Version of Topic
Click here to view this topic in its original format |
| Parenting Club Forums > Precious Angels > It's over. |
| Posted by: ~Roo'sMama~ Apr 25 2006, 02:48 PM |
| The u/s showed that everything is gone except for one little pool of blood. I've spotted a bit since my appointment so that might be done too. In my head I knew that my baby was gone, but in my heart I had a little bit of crazy hope still that somehow a healthy baby would show up on the screen. My doctor said that what I passed on thursday was the baby... I guess I already knew that. My heart is aching. I feel empty and defeated. |
| Posted by: My3LilMonkeys Apr 25 2006, 03:05 PM |
 |
| Posted by: PrairieMom Apr 25 2006, 03:19 PM |
| |
| Posted by: CosmetologyMommy Apr 25 2006, 03:27 PM |
 |
| Posted by: AlexsPajamaMama Apr 25 2006, 03:27 PM |
| Lots of hugs |
| Posted by: 5littleladies Apr 25 2006, 03:32 PM |
| I'm sorry I didn't say something comforting before you left. I know that ache and sometimes there are just no words. I hope you're feeling a bit better now. |
| Posted by: ediep Apr 25 2006, 04:36 PM |
| |
| Posted by: luvmykids Apr 25 2006, 04:50 PM |
| I'm sorry Sara. |
| Posted by: ~Roo'sMama~ Apr 25 2006, 04:51 PM | ||
It's ok. I know there isn't much to say. I definitely remember that "I wish I had something to say" feeling.  I do feel a bit better than I did when I left your house, but I'm still kind of weepy. One thing that really bugs me is, even though I had an idea last thursday that I might have miscarried, I didn't know for sure that that was what happened - I didn't even really think it was until a couple hours later. I don't know if it makes any sense, but I feel cheated, like I didn't get to say goodbye.  I know that's not when my baby actually died, but that's when it left me. I also wish that we were living in a house that we're planning on staying in forever, so that I could have buried the baby. |
| Posted by: kayla's mama Apr 25 2006, 04:54 PM |
| I am so sorry sweetie |
| Posted by: mysweetpeasWil&Wes Apr 25 2006, 05:19 PM |
| I'm so sorry Sara. You're in my thoughts. |
| Posted by: CantWait Apr 25 2006, 05:38 PM |
| I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how you're feeling right now. |
| Posted by: 3_call_me_mama Apr 26 2006, 04:21 AM |
| HUGS and prayers. So sorry for your loss and hope that you are finding the strength to share your beautiful smile |
| Posted by: gr33n3y3z Apr 26 2006, 04:26 AM |
| so sorry |
| Posted by: 3xsthefun Apr 26 2006, 05:11 AM |
| |
| Posted by: Kaitlin'smom Apr 26 2006, 05:13 AM |
| I am so sorry |
| Posted by: BAC'sMom Apr 26 2006, 06:03 AM |
| I am so sorry about your loss. We are all here for you ok. |
| Posted by: garrettsmom Apr 26 2006, 08:59 AM |
| I'm so sorry for your loss Sara, you and your family are in my prayers. |
| Posted by: A&A'smommy Apr 26 2006, 09:10 AM |
| I'm so sorry sweetheart, my heart is breaking for you.. I wish I could say something more comforting!!! |
| Posted by: Halo42101 Apr 26 2006, 11:59 AM |
| [God] comforts us... that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble. -2 Corinthians 1:3. Sara, please know that I am here for you. You can PM me any time you need to talk or vent. |
| Posted by: Sarah&Mackenzie Apr 26 2006, 12:00 PM |
| I am so sorry |
| Posted by: Maddie&EthansMom Apr 26 2006, 12:22 PM |
| I'm so so so so sorry, Sara!!! |
| Posted by: coasterqueen Apr 26 2006, 12:27 PM |
| Oh Sara, I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could say that would make things better. |
| Posted by: ashtonsmama Apr 26 2006, 01:37 PM |
| I'm so sorry Sara. I have no words of comfort for you, except that time heals. Just let yourself grieve. It is a big deal, so don't dismiss your feelings, hun. |
| Posted by: Bee_Kay Apr 27 2006, 04:53 AM |
| I am so sorry |
| Posted by: asweetnectarwomb Apr 27 2006, 06:36 PM |
| I'm deeply sorry, Sara... *big hugs* |
| Posted by: My2Beauties Apr 28 2006, 12:42 PM |
| I am so sorry for your loss! If you need anything please PM me, hon! I know how you are feeling right now. It gets better as time passes but your "little one" will always hold a special place in your heart! |
| Posted by: jcc64 Apr 28 2006, 07:27 PM |
| I understand how you feel, and I'm really sorry. |
| Posted by: NEWMOM05 Apr 28 2006, 09:05 PM |
| Sara, I have felt what you are feeling. pm if you need to talk. |