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Posted by: SaraMWilliams Dec 24 2011, 04:22 AM

Hi all

I am Sara and I am new here. A couple of days ago while doing laundry, I found a stain on my son ( he is 11 ) bedsheets. It looks like ejaculate and I am so embarrised but overwhelmed. It might not even be that either but I am stuck and I don't know what my next step is. I am a single mom and I know my son would hit puberty eventually but NOW. I am not ready to have this chat with him .

Is it even possible that my 11 year old is masturbating? I feel overwhelmed as my little boy is growing up but that's my son, he is either masturbating or had a wet dream which I believe is part of puberty.

Someone help

Sara

Posted by: mckayleesmom Jan 8 2012, 06:52 PM

Its highly possible. I wouldn't make a big deal about it...its normal. Maybe you can talk to him about changes he is going to soon be experiencing and offer to take him to the library for some reading material. If you don't make it a big deal...he won't. You can also ask an older trusted male friend or family member take him on a boys night out and talk to him.